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[mateo231011]

I just wanted to write about something that has been a little thorn in my side for the past few days. Please leave a comment with your feelings on the situation. Over the weekend my friend had a birthday, but I was really busy. I seem to have gotten a bigillion things for school to do, so I was sort of freaking out. So my friend had a birthday and

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[gogofrie]

ok matt..for whatever reason i did not recieve the instant message..but either way..i havent talked to u in a month..you could have picked up ur phone..told me how u were.
it doesnt help that you past entry pretty much made me feel like i was a mistake to u..so i think im just kinda hurt all together. i dunno.
but ur forgiven..life goes on.

[anonymous]

i got a question i need to ask....WHO CARES??? seriously dude, unless your goin out with this girl, which i definitly know your not, or unless u like her, which i dont know cuz ive never seen u and her together, then who the fuck cares man. I forget to say happy birthday to my friends on there actual birthday all the damn time. this is the problem with society today, everyone stresses out about little shit, like laguna beach. those people fuckin flip out if they get a stain on there clothes. its not like u were mean and said "fuck u, i hope your birthday sucks." we've all been busy before. people just need to chill.

Your buddy.

[anonymous]

i sense she still likes you......a girl wouldnt freak out and single out her "best friend" like that if she didnt have some sorta fellings....

[gogofrie]

actually matt..i do not have feelings for you. just an fyi.
i just thought we were better friends than that...and asking for these peoples opinion doesnt really help..because they most likely do not know the situation..but thats fine...

A Revelation of a situation

[gogofrie]

You ay think matt is spreading propaganda like hitler, but i definetely see a clear explanation and question. Was a IM enough? Yes, because with the distance and the fact that you are no longer dating, there SHOULD BE NO EXPECTATIONS!!!! saying things like "i just thought we were better friends than that" --really put strain on relationships. Your separate and the expectations should be low, leave room for a friendship. I urge you to try your best to not be bitter, and make impulsive remarks that can repel and ruin a friendship!--

Apparently I'm the exception too...

[gogofrie]

A phone call only takes a couple of minutes Matt. There's nothing wrong with calling a friend, regardless of how close you are, to wish a happy birthday. Everyone loves calls on their birthday...IM'S are just mediocre. Common, step it up...

I live in Nebraska

[anonymous]

wow, my name is jim and i live in nebraska, i was looking up random journals, and wow this girl is crazy!!!