Question someone asked on a list..
Thought perhaps we could vcome up with some answers for this person
Soon, I shall become the fulltime slave for my Madame.
Firstly, I have asked for a non-consensual relationship with Madame.She has agreed, and I love her for that! But she is very safety concious, for example, leaving me in bondage without supervision, despite my mentioning that it is something I would like to try.
Maybe its the caring I actually dont want? And she does care for my safety and such.
Madame is experienced and knowledgeable, so I think it's not a question of insecurity or lack of nerve on her part, but a decision she has reached through experience.
She is into sadism, which I like a lot, but my main thrust is for a nullifying effect on my persona, where I become a utility, rather than a person with rights etc. She also has a job of work, while I shall be the houseboy with time on my hands. This in itself is a problem in that I can spend all day imagining scenarios and stuff, (BTW it's a given that she shall be attended to her every need!), but refuses to consider making me a pet or an 'it'. Should I worry? Maybe, as the time gets nearer to actually doing what we've talked about, Im trying to cover all the bases? Nevertheless, being so excited by my soon-to-be status, do I have to be what she says, and not necessarily get what I want? Or should I make it clear before total commitment?
Next. I recently read (for the first time) a Gor story, I forget which one, but my interest was piqued by the thread recently about the girl who fell into the Gorean speech manner, and found it very fulfilling. So I thought I'd see what the fuss was about. I think it is a mode of speech that actually does two things: One, it makes the user concentrate on what they are saying. Because it's a pattern of speech that adults never use, trying it out becomes a trial of received learning over determination to get it right! Second, it acts as a constant reminder to both the Master and the speaker of the fact that the slave is not necessarily to be considered as a person. Rather an 'it'. And that makes me hot! But Madame loathes anything to do with Gor. Saying that it is a contrived and false analogy. What do you lot think?
Anyone tried it for any length of time? And does your thinking or attitude change?
Soon, I shall become the fulltime slave for my Madame.
Firstly, I have asked for a non-consensual relationship with Madame.She has agreed, and I love her for that! But she is very safety concious, for example, leaving me in bondage without supervision, despite my mentioning that it is something I would like to try.
Maybe its the caring I actually dont want? And she does care for my safety and such.
Madame is experienced and knowledgeable, so I think it's not a question of insecurity or lack of nerve on her part, but a decision she has reached through experience.
She is into sadism, which I like a lot, but my main thrust is for a nullifying effect on my persona, where I become a utility, rather than a person with rights etc. She also has a job of work, while I shall be the houseboy with time on my hands. This in itself is a problem in that I can spend all day imagining scenarios and stuff, (BTW it's a given that she shall be attended to her every need!), but refuses to consider making me a pet or an 'it'. Should I worry? Maybe, as the time gets nearer to actually doing what we've talked about, Im trying to cover all the bases? Nevertheless, being so excited by my soon-to-be status, do I have to be what she says, and not necessarily get what I want? Or should I make it clear before total commitment?
Next. I recently read (for the first time) a Gor story, I forget which one, but my interest was piqued by the thread recently about the girl who fell into the Gorean speech manner, and found it very fulfilling. So I thought I'd see what the fuss was about. I think it is a mode of speech that actually does two things: One, it makes the user concentrate on what they are saying. Because it's a pattern of speech that adults never use, trying it out becomes a trial of received learning over determination to get it right! Second, it acts as a constant reminder to both the Master and the speaker of the fact that the slave is not necessarily to be considered as a person. Rather an 'it'. And that makes me hot! But Madame loathes anything to do with Gor. Saying that it is a contrived and false analogy. What do you lot think?
Anyone tried it for any length of time? And does your thinking or attitude change?