Dec 03, 2005 00:13
I've made this point before and now I'm going to make it again; it's been a few years and I guess maybe some of us forgot. But guys are really, truly idiotic. We miss the most obvious, insignificant shit and then get pissed off when someone points it out to us. We do not see how important it is to make someone else feel special in their own way. It is so essential and yet is so simple as getting someone flowers. Now, it is not about the flowers folks...hell no. It's about doing something for someone that is just for them. For example, taking someone out to dinner and a movie is something that both can enjoy. Now that stuff is very important, don't get me wrong, but it is directed around both parties. Flowers and other singular type gifts, revolve around the one person. Those flowers are just for that one special person to make them feel just that...SPECIAL. Now like I said, it does not have to be just flowers; flowers are not the focus here if you haven't figured it out already. It is the act of giving someone, someTHING that makes just THEM feel special. So guys, take this to heart and understand how important this is, because I now do and it took my stubborn ass too long to figure this out. Don't be dense like I was and ignore that special person.
I love you Andrea.
peace