Meeting "someone"
So, on the way to see my parents' new place today, queenmidalah and I got to talking about dating - and we both agreed that while it would be nice to meet someone, it's not something either of us need to have. That's not saying I wouldn't like to meet someone, but I don't need a man in my life to complete me.
However, if I were to go "honey hunting" as a friend called it oh, so many years ago...
A big barrier to meeting someone is the time factor. I work, come home, do homework, go to bed. Lather, rinse, repeat on a daily basis. How does anyone really get together any more?
Facebook? Lots of friends on there, but um... no.
Online? Great friends there, too - but just like on Facebook, they are all a) gay, b) taken, or c) gay and taken.
School? I go to PSU through the World Campus - the virtual branch. And I'm probably a good decade older than most of my classmates, anyhow.
Going to a bar? So very not my scene. And, like a co-worker and I discussed not that long ago - is the kind of guy who goes to bars to "hunt" the kind of guy I want to get together with? He said no and I agree!
So that leaves me with staying single and enjoying the time I spend with friends and family. Yeah, I like that. I can live with that quite happily :)
However, if I were to go "honey hunting" as a friend called it oh, so many years ago...
A big barrier to meeting someone is the time factor. I work, come home, do homework, go to bed. Lather, rinse, repeat on a daily basis. How does anyone really get together any more?
Facebook? Lots of friends on there, but um... no.
Online? Great friends there, too - but just like on Facebook, they are all a) gay, b) taken, or c) gay and taken.
School? I go to PSU through the World Campus - the virtual branch. And I'm probably a good decade older than most of my classmates, anyhow.
Going to a bar? So very not my scene. And, like a co-worker and I discussed not that long ago - is the kind of guy who goes to bars to "hunt" the kind of guy I want to get together with? He said no and I agree!
So that leaves me with staying single and enjoying the time I spend with friends and family. Yeah, I like that. I can live with that quite happily :)