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Still feeling pretty icky these days, and have yet to determine the cause. About a week ago I was up in the night vomiting bile, but it might have been because of the new BC pill I was taking. But that doesn't explain all the other times I've been sick. I'm thinking it might be related to blood sugar
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I'm not sure how to handle it, as only you know your parents well enough to tell, but they really need to grow up. Considering friends "unhealthy" to hang out with just because of their sexuality is not only incorrect and abhorrent, it's unhealthy for your parents. It's bigotry at its worst.
You're at an age where your parents' stranglehold on you has to end sooner or later if you want to be a healthy, social, non-traumatised adult. It's a sticky situation, I won't even try to soften that... but the more gradual you can make your liberation, the better. I'm sure there are many factors in play; for me it was my older brother who didn't live up to their expectations and got disowned by them, so they turned all their focus on me. Always remember, though: you've got limits to how much crap you can take--and so do they.
*hugs* good luck. If you ever need somebody to talk to, just let me know. I'm not big on posting my phone number in online journals though... ;)
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Anyway, sorry I haven't been around much, but I've been reading through the happenings in your journal. You're such a sweetie. *hugs* Thank you.
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When it came to coming out to my parents, I too thought about just cutting them off entirely, but it's just not the right thing to do... and no matter how much it seems like you want to, for me, at least, I can feel that I wouldn't really be happier not having them in my life at all.
Your parents will start to get the idea though. Just be confident in yourself, be strongly assertive, but be just compassionate enough to know when crossing the line any further will do more harm than good. That's my policy. :)
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