To whom it may concern...
I have been informed by a friend of mine that they stuck up for my child and me in my ex's friend's post. I have read what that person and all of you wrote.
First off, I did not know of or consent to those comments.
Second of all, none of you know what really happened. I never stopped him from having visitation, he is the one that kept our son away from ME. He abused me with the system, and it caught up to him. I never would have moved back, if he didn't scratch his own face and say I did it, then lie to get orders against me. Before I said word one in court, the judge realized his lies immediatly, just from reading his paperwork, and gave him SUPERVISED visitation after reading mine. Based on not just my word, but the words of Jasper's doctor, social worker, nurse, and true friends and family. The friends that were actually around during the time we were together. If he would pay child support, I could have been able to stay up there. All my family is on the east coast, you can't blame a person for doing what's best for their child. His father isn't paying, so I need help from my family. His father signed papers saying this is what is best for our son. If he cares as much as he lies and tells all of you that he does, he would not only pay his child support (as he IS able, he is working), he would call to talk to him. We have been here just about 3 weeks, and he only called to talk to him ONCE, and canceled 5 webcams. We have sent emails back and forth, talking of Jasper's future, in all those emails, he has not asked how our son is doing.
I know that this is falling upon deaf ears, you all have known him for many years, and never spent any quility time with me, so of course you would take your friend's word over a stranger.
I ask that you all stay out of my business, and keep your comments to yourselves, as you DON'T know the true story, and you sure as hell don't know me.
First off, I did not know of or consent to those comments.
Second of all, none of you know what really happened. I never stopped him from having visitation, he is the one that kept our son away from ME. He abused me with the system, and it caught up to him. I never would have moved back, if he didn't scratch his own face and say I did it, then lie to get orders against me. Before I said word one in court, the judge realized his lies immediatly, just from reading his paperwork, and gave him SUPERVISED visitation after reading mine. Based on not just my word, but the words of Jasper's doctor, social worker, nurse, and true friends and family. The friends that were actually around during the time we were together. If he would pay child support, I could have been able to stay up there. All my family is on the east coast, you can't blame a person for doing what's best for their child. His father isn't paying, so I need help from my family. His father signed papers saying this is what is best for our son. If he cares as much as he lies and tells all of you that he does, he would not only pay his child support (as he IS able, he is working), he would call to talk to him. We have been here just about 3 weeks, and he only called to talk to him ONCE, and canceled 5 webcams. We have sent emails back and forth, talking of Jasper's future, in all those emails, he has not asked how our son is doing.
I know that this is falling upon deaf ears, you all have known him for many years, and never spent any quility time with me, so of course you would take your friend's word over a stranger.
I ask that you all stay out of my business, and keep your comments to yourselves, as you DON'T know the true story, and you sure as hell don't know me.