This Beautiful Mess
So...it's officially ick outside. But I'm okay.
Adam is at work. I have three new magazines to dive into. I'm pretty jazzed about that. Um, I just had a big piece of cake. (Mom's birthday) I think it made me a little sick.
Life is good. Although I have realized that unfortunately, what everyone warns you about actually does happen. When you get married, your single friends, even if they are couples...they really seem to drop you a little bit. Marriage changed my life in such a positive way, but I think it changes the way everyone else looks at you. Suddenly, nobody asks you to go out anymore.
Matt and Meg go out with Edward, Frank, and Ben I think all the time. They go eat and go to movies and whatever. We used to go with them. But now that we're married it's like we don't qualify as part of the group. What kind of stigma has everybody developed against married people?
We're the same Adam and Meleah we've always been. The only difference is that we live together and have legally vowed to be faithful to one another for life. But we still like movies and dining out!!!!
Whatever.
Like all married couples, of course you spend a lot of time together. But we're different from most. Sure, we love spending lazy mornings in bed watching movies and various other bed related activites. But we spend time apart, too. We don't workout together. He goes running, I bellydance at home or go to the gym. He plays XBox, I'm watching Sex and the City. We make separate shopping trips.
I yearn for a little "Chick" time.
Maybe soon...Jeanna I'm looking in your direction!
love love love,
Me
Adam is at work. I have three new magazines to dive into. I'm pretty jazzed about that. Um, I just had a big piece of cake. (Mom's birthday) I think it made me a little sick.
Life is good. Although I have realized that unfortunately, what everyone warns you about actually does happen. When you get married, your single friends, even if they are couples...they really seem to drop you a little bit. Marriage changed my life in such a positive way, but I think it changes the way everyone else looks at you. Suddenly, nobody asks you to go out anymore.
Matt and Meg go out with Edward, Frank, and Ben I think all the time. They go eat and go to movies and whatever. We used to go with them. But now that we're married it's like we don't qualify as part of the group. What kind of stigma has everybody developed against married people?
We're the same Adam and Meleah we've always been. The only difference is that we live together and have legally vowed to be faithful to one another for life. But we still like movies and dining out!!!!
Whatever.
Like all married couples, of course you spend a lot of time together. But we're different from most. Sure, we love spending lazy mornings in bed watching movies and various other bed related activites. But we spend time apart, too. We don't workout together. He goes running, I bellydance at home or go to the gym. He plays XBox, I'm watching Sex and the City. We make separate shopping trips.
I yearn for a little "Chick" time.
Maybe soon...Jeanna I'm looking in your direction!
love love love,
Me