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Hey everybody....... No questions today or brain twisters.
I was reading OUT magazine today and read an article that I thought you all might enjoy, so I quote.
NINE TIPS FOR GETTING LAID
1. Location Location Location
The guys won't come to you--unless you're ordering in--so you've got to go to where the guys are. You sould pick venues that attract the kind of guys you like. If you're looking for a 20-something twink, you probably won't find him at a piano bar, if you are looking for a more stable 35 year old-the circuit parties are going to leave you unsatisified.
2. Confidence
Confidence is the commmon denominator among guys who score regulatly when on the prowl. If you're not naturally the self-assured type, then pretend to be. If you appear more confident, guys will be more attracted to you, thereby boosting your confidence, making you seem more attractive.
3. Body Language
Sending off the right kind of signals and knowing how to read them from other guys will supplement your scoring success. Score easy hints? Good posture indicates confidence. Direct eye contact and finding an excuse to touch him indicates attraction.
4. Slow Down
When you get nervous, it's natural to speed up your speech and get tounge-tied, but it will betray your nervousness. Slow down your walk, your talk, your moves.Measure your words carefully, delibertely. Speaking more slowly will draw him to you.
5. Don't Swoop To Soon
When you spot a hot prospect entering a party or club, don't rush to put your moves on him as soon as he arrives. Guys who go out regularly expect to meet several people over the course of a night, and they're unlikely to go home with the first guy who says hi. You've got time.
6. Accept The Risk Of Rejection
Rejection pretty much sucks no matter how you look at it. But you will live through it. The sooner you're comfortable with approaching a guy knowing he might just turn you down, the sooner you'll eliminate your anxiety about approaching guys. What's the worst that could happen? He could say no.
7. Don't Be So Nice
Nice is fine for window treatments, but it's a foul word when it comes to hooking up. A bit of overconfidence with out being rude yields more action.
8. Use The Force
You met a great guy, got his email address, and want to invite him out. It might seem fine to write,"I had fun talking with you. Want to grab a cup of coffee?" but that's a pretty tepid note. Try something more forceful like, "When can I take you out for a drink?" I want to finish our conversation.
9. Do It Now
So you and he have a great tete-a-tete going. Just remember that here's an expiration date on every hot flirtation. You've got to pounce. Ask him, "Do you want to go home with me?"
This prolly will help those closer to being in college like me or those older guys that read my journal but I hope that to some extent it helps all of you.
Till next I wirte
Marty
I was reading OUT magazine today and read an article that I thought you all might enjoy, so I quote.
NINE TIPS FOR GETTING LAID
1. Location Location Location
The guys won't come to you--unless you're ordering in--so you've got to go to where the guys are. You sould pick venues that attract the kind of guys you like. If you're looking for a 20-something twink, you probably won't find him at a piano bar, if you are looking for a more stable 35 year old-the circuit parties are going to leave you unsatisified.
2. Confidence
Confidence is the commmon denominator among guys who score regulatly when on the prowl. If you're not naturally the self-assured type, then pretend to be. If you appear more confident, guys will be more attracted to you, thereby boosting your confidence, making you seem more attractive.
3. Body Language
Sending off the right kind of signals and knowing how to read them from other guys will supplement your scoring success. Score easy hints? Good posture indicates confidence. Direct eye contact and finding an excuse to touch him indicates attraction.
4. Slow Down
When you get nervous, it's natural to speed up your speech and get tounge-tied, but it will betray your nervousness. Slow down your walk, your talk, your moves.Measure your words carefully, delibertely. Speaking more slowly will draw him to you.
5. Don't Swoop To Soon
When you spot a hot prospect entering a party or club, don't rush to put your moves on him as soon as he arrives. Guys who go out regularly expect to meet several people over the course of a night, and they're unlikely to go home with the first guy who says hi. You've got time.
6. Accept The Risk Of Rejection
Rejection pretty much sucks no matter how you look at it. But you will live through it. The sooner you're comfortable with approaching a guy knowing he might just turn you down, the sooner you'll eliminate your anxiety about approaching guys. What's the worst that could happen? He could say no.
7. Don't Be So Nice
Nice is fine for window treatments, but it's a foul word when it comes to hooking up. A bit of overconfidence with out being rude yields more action.
8. Use The Force
You met a great guy, got his email address, and want to invite him out. It might seem fine to write,"I had fun talking with you. Want to grab a cup of coffee?" but that's a pretty tepid note. Try something more forceful like, "When can I take you out for a drink?" I want to finish our conversation.
9. Do It Now
So you and he have a great tete-a-tete going. Just remember that here's an expiration date on every hot flirtation. You've got to pounce. Ask him, "Do you want to go home with me?"
This prolly will help those closer to being in college like me or those older guys that read my journal but I hope that to some extent it helps all of you.
Till next I wirte
Marty