Moneyless money shots
Explaining the moneyless money shot
Stephanie, the only reason I come here, is holding a gun to all the jerk-offs heads who only come here to lurk, not to contribute. She has a point. Here's the first of my constant postings so I can continue to be in Stephie's good graces. And happy Victoria Day to you all.
Here's a very concise explanation of one philosophy about why dudes like the money shot. (Please forward to Katharine McPhee when you're done. Go Kat!).
Swallowing
Guys always tell me that oral sex is always better if the girl swallows. Is there an actual physical reason for this or is it just some extra psychological kick due to a sense of dominance? For instance, I realize that when I swallow, my tongue presses against the roof of my mouth and my throat contracts. Is that what makes for a better feeling for the guy?
Louise
Dear Louise,
There's no question that there is a physical element to the appeal of ejaculating in a woman's mouth -- the moisture and warmth of the mouth is reminiscent of the vagina, which some would suggest explains the allure of oral sex in the first place. Add a tongue to the mix and the pleasurable sensation increases tenfold.
Nonetheless, most would agree that, as is the case in many things sexual, the added pleasure derives from the brain rather than the body. But the notion that the additional "psychological kick" relies solely on a sense of dominance is a common misperception. For many men, the pleasure of ejaculating in a woman's mouth is rooted in a sense of acceptance; the acceptance of a man's emissions is equated with the acceptance of the man himself.
Stephanie, the only reason I come here, is holding a gun to all the jerk-offs heads who only come here to lurk, not to contribute. She has a point. Here's the first of my constant postings so I can continue to be in Stephie's good graces. And happy Victoria Day to you all.
Here's a very concise explanation of one philosophy about why dudes like the money shot. (Please forward to Katharine McPhee when you're done. Go Kat!).
Swallowing
Guys always tell me that oral sex is always better if the girl swallows. Is there an actual physical reason for this or is it just some extra psychological kick due to a sense of dominance? For instance, I realize that when I swallow, my tongue presses against the roof of my mouth and my throat contracts. Is that what makes for a better feeling for the guy?
Louise
Dear Louise,
There's no question that there is a physical element to the appeal of ejaculating in a woman's mouth -- the moisture and warmth of the mouth is reminiscent of the vagina, which some would suggest explains the allure of oral sex in the first place. Add a tongue to the mix and the pleasurable sensation increases tenfold.
Nonetheless, most would agree that, as is the case in many things sexual, the added pleasure derives from the brain rather than the body. But the notion that the additional "psychological kick" relies solely on a sense of dominance is a common misperception. For many men, the pleasure of ejaculating in a woman's mouth is rooted in a sense of acceptance; the acceptance of a man's emissions is equated with the acceptance of the man himself.