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I wrote this a week or so before Jon moved in. If Jesse would have listened to me i would have been back in Connecticut before Jon even contacted us. My family would still be together. I would be back home to stay. why couldn't Jesse have just listened and gone home? thats all i wanted.....
I am dealing with way too much indescion right now on ( Read more... )
I am dealing with way too much indescion right now on ( Read more... )
I think you have a great deal of potential that looks untaped to me. Slow down a minute. You are in a good place at your dad's. Your husband can only do what he thinks is best for him and your child. You did a stupid thing, and he is doign a stupid thing by not listening. Nevertheless, his change of heart will not make the whole thing better. Thisngs won't magically be grand if he just sees things your way. The only person that you can change is yourself. Now is a wonderful time to do some work on you. A chance to step back and look at the posibillities. Look at where you need work and prayerfully discern what the next step is.
My opinion, not that you asked and for what it is wortth, is to find someone (a pastor or counselor who is trained to deal with this stuff) to talk this out with. Lay it all on the table. Somone who will not judge you for who you are and where you've been. Just someone who will reflect back to you what you are saying and support you through the tough decisions of the coming weeks and months.
I hope you find this helpful.
-c/
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