"How are you?" Is that so hard!!!
Dear Friends,
OK so i am just had a talk with a real good friend of mine and we both agreed that sometimes it is hard to be the one people go to for emotional support. You know the kind of people who you call when the girl or the guy hurts you, or your messing up school, or your broke, lonely, or hundreds of other feelings. I am one of those guys. She is one of those girls. We both like being the type of person you can count on, because we will always be there for you. i mean we love our friends but sometimes we wonder "who are we to turn too?" It used to be we could turn to one another but because of recent events that is no longer possible. So tonight we kind of listened to each other because frankly we were the only ones who asked. Why is that?
Why don't you ask people how they are doing? Why don't you help your friends instead of just bitching about your own life. I will admit that I am ok and don't really need this as much as my friend. She recently broke up with this guy who was very special to her. Needless to say it has been a hard time but what I was surprised to hear was that almost no one had really asked her how she was. No one really talked to her. Did she cry on your shoulder? Why not? Did you talk to her all night because she was so sad? I did it for you. Why didn't anyone hold her? Ask yourself. Did I? Did I ask? Did I care? Why? Why not?
Needless to say the friend I talked to tonight was Sarah Parga. I don't understand. Why didn't she have someone. Why weren't you there? She deserves better.
Please don't take this the wrong way. I'm not saying I don't want to help you or that my problems are more important than anyones. I am just wondering. i know I would never let a friend suffer alone like she is. That is why I am there for her as a last resort. I owe her that.
Also this does not pertain to the one who helped me when i was down. You know who you are. You are the only one who has really stepped up and been there for me. Thank you for that. Thanks for checkin in on me every now and then. That's why your the best. Thats why you mean so much to me.
Love
Mark
OK so i am just had a talk with a real good friend of mine and we both agreed that sometimes it is hard to be the one people go to for emotional support. You know the kind of people who you call when the girl or the guy hurts you, or your messing up school, or your broke, lonely, or hundreds of other feelings. I am one of those guys. She is one of those girls. We both like being the type of person you can count on, because we will always be there for you. i mean we love our friends but sometimes we wonder "who are we to turn too?" It used to be we could turn to one another but because of recent events that is no longer possible. So tonight we kind of listened to each other because frankly we were the only ones who asked. Why is that?
Why don't you ask people how they are doing? Why don't you help your friends instead of just bitching about your own life. I will admit that I am ok and don't really need this as much as my friend. She recently broke up with this guy who was very special to her. Needless to say it has been a hard time but what I was surprised to hear was that almost no one had really asked her how she was. No one really talked to her. Did she cry on your shoulder? Why not? Did you talk to her all night because she was so sad? I did it for you. Why didn't anyone hold her? Ask yourself. Did I? Did I ask? Did I care? Why? Why not?
Needless to say the friend I talked to tonight was Sarah Parga. I don't understand. Why didn't she have someone. Why weren't you there? She deserves better.
Please don't take this the wrong way. I'm not saying I don't want to help you or that my problems are more important than anyones. I am just wondering. i know I would never let a friend suffer alone like she is. That is why I am there for her as a last resort. I owe her that.
Also this does not pertain to the one who helped me when i was down. You know who you are. You are the only one who has really stepped up and been there for me. Thank you for that. Thanks for checkin in on me every now and then. That's why your the best. Thats why you mean so much to me.
Love
Mark