The double date from hell!
Ok so I had a date on Saturday night.... The girl that I went out with lied to me (or maybe she just fudged the truth, to me, its lying..) She wrote me the following e-mail.... I don't understand,,, is it against the law to not find someone attractive????? And when she said that I kept signing on and off, it only happened one time and I was checking my e-mail! I don't get it! I told her that I wanted a butch girl just to save her feelings, I didn't want to be mean, but I just wasn't into her! And as far as my friends and I calling her to harass her, I think that shes just a little bit to into herself, like I don't have better things to do with my self! GRRRRRRR, I am just so annoyed with people...I give up on this whole meeting people on the Internet, it just doesn't seem to be working for me!
Heres the e-mail that she sent me:
Well every time you have came on IM today you have left again immediately. Now I don't want to say that it's because you see that I'm on but it does look a little suspicious.
So with that said I just wanted to say a few things.
1. You knew that I was femme, I told you that. There was no secrets, and when we talked on the phone you didn't say anything about not wanting to be with me because you were looking for a butch. You in essence led me to think that you were excited to meet me. We flirted and talked and it seemed like it would be all good.
2. You met me and I could tell from ten minutes into meeting me that you weren't into me. And because you weren't into me, you were rude. Yes rude, you barely spoke to me the whole evening, acting like you couldn't wait for the evening to end. And in fact you said that to me at one point during rocky, saying that usually you were all excited about it but that you weren't that night. So it makes me think that maybe my weight threw you off and you didn't want to have anything to do with me because of that. It wouldn't be the first time, but your not all that and some skinny minnie yourself so I would hope that's not what your judging people on because if you are then you have a long way to grow up.
I just wanted to get all that said, because I knew when I got out of the car last night it would be the last time I saw you. So don't worry about having to hide from me and try to get out of being my friend or something, I have taken your name off my buddy list, thrown your phone number away and I hope that you will do the same for me.
And I remember how I was when I was young and my friends and I did stupid things, so don't call my house because your mad at what I've said, or have your friends call to call me names. It's against the law to harass people on the phone like that, and you told me yourself that you and your friends are wild and I don't know you well enough to know what you will and won't do. I'm just stating this so hopefully nothing will happen. Hope you find some butch bull dyke that your looking for.
Heres the e-mail that she sent me:
Well every time you have came on IM today you have left again immediately. Now I don't want to say that it's because you see that I'm on but it does look a little suspicious.
So with that said I just wanted to say a few things.
1. You knew that I was femme, I told you that. There was no secrets, and when we talked on the phone you didn't say anything about not wanting to be with me because you were looking for a butch. You in essence led me to think that you were excited to meet me. We flirted and talked and it seemed like it would be all good.
2. You met me and I could tell from ten minutes into meeting me that you weren't into me. And because you weren't into me, you were rude. Yes rude, you barely spoke to me the whole evening, acting like you couldn't wait for the evening to end. And in fact you said that to me at one point during rocky, saying that usually you were all excited about it but that you weren't that night. So it makes me think that maybe my weight threw you off and you didn't want to have anything to do with me because of that. It wouldn't be the first time, but your not all that and some skinny minnie yourself so I would hope that's not what your judging people on because if you are then you have a long way to grow up.
I just wanted to get all that said, because I knew when I got out of the car last night it would be the last time I saw you. So don't worry about having to hide from me and try to get out of being my friend or something, I have taken your name off my buddy list, thrown your phone number away and I hope that you will do the same for me.
And I remember how I was when I was young and my friends and I did stupid things, so don't call my house because your mad at what I've said, or have your friends call to call me names. It's against the law to harass people on the phone like that, and you told me yourself that you and your friends are wild and I don't know you well enough to know what you will and won't do. I'm just stating this so hopefully nothing will happen. Hope you find some butch bull dyke that your looking for.