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[marilena_r]

A little while ago I had met a Muslim girl in kattunlove, half Japanese, half Saudi Arabian. I was interested in her because I thought her being in the Japanese culture would have made her more tolerant. At first she seemed moderate. But when I urged her to talk more she backed off.
I don’t know whether she didn’t want to talk or whether she couldn’t. The

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[rinadiputri]

ah.. u make her afraid!! XD
u talked on lj or chat?

well... indo is the multi-culture country with the largest muslim population
im just the minority :p
and tell u the truth, we become bit worried since so many terrorist here..
and sometimes, this terrorist related to radical muslim ppl...

[marilena_r]

You think she got afraid? Lol! I remember a comment from a Muslim saying that the Saudis are bad for Islam. Unforgettable! But now I am certain that some Muslims do speak up and they overcome their fear.
Ah, true. You are attacked by terrorists there as well. And you'd expect more tolerance in a multi-cultural society... And according to Indonesian terrorists, what are the non-muslims guilty for?

[rinadiputri]

something that doesn't make sense for me...
they wanted to against ppl they called 'murtad' which means an islam enemy's such as george w bush and his alliances...
they also attack church (boomed it actually) cause christian is western culture and against muslim too

saudis bad for islam?
all ppl there is muslim! and their country based from islamic rules...
and yes, there is so many awful things happen there... (from what i heard)

[marilena_r]

Ah, ok... freaking paranoia... Get a brain people! This kind of things make me angry.
Saudis are bad for Islam in the sense that they give a bad name to it... Maybe.
(I forgot to answer: I discussed with the said girl here in LJ)

[rinadiputri]

ah.. u have no idea how mad i am here..
and specially when they boomed many public area...
from Australia embassy until XMas boomed
and i can hear the boom sound when Australia embassy boomed..
its scared....

ah.. in LJ... maybe she has no time to reply u...
or just afraid talk to u hahahaha

i have no idea bout Saudi, cause indo ppl have 'bad experience' there also..

[marilena_r]

Maybe she was afraid or annoyed... She is no longer in my flist but maybe she stalks my lj. I doubt it and I wouldn't care anyway!
You heard the explosion? Oh... I had a similar experience. Do you remember about a factory that exploded in Toulouse a few years ago? I heard the explosion and my window opened and I had no idea what had happened...

[rinadiputri]

isnt it an accident? the factory exploded.. im interest with what u said mask behaviour before.. u mean her or the terrorist?

[marilena_r]

It was an accident...
And I mean her. For a psychologist it's always upsetting when they don't know what the other person thinks...

[rinadiputri]

please explain more
*curious here*

[marilena_r]

When you don't know what the other thinks, you will try to fill the gap with your imagination. And if you care about the other, this is really tough. Sometimes you need to know and all you get is assumptions. The solution is stop caring. And so, people stop caring about the others. But I guess people can get misunderstood even when they talk, so they prefer to stop talking and communicating. - Gosh... I think it's sadness talking here.

[rinadiputri]

i get what u mean, but still have no idea whats happening....
what is happening actually?
why u can say she's 'fake'?
*or i assume it wrong..*

[marilena_r]

I don't talk about a particular event. Rather the absence of communication. It's not the other being fake. It's not knowing what he/she is...

[rinadiputri]

sou ka....
the curiosity can make us assume so many negative things ne..

[marilena_r]

:) Yes, that's what I always think. Curiosity in the good sense.