huge dilema
alright this is gonna be hard to talk about but yea. i need some help guys like maybe some advice might be nice. here goes...... there is a friend of mine that i've known for over a year now. and ever since we met i've had on and off "crushes" for him and from what i can tell it's been the same way for him (on and off) but it never seems to be at the same time. lately they've been gettin worse and i've found myself developin "feelings" for him. i wanted him back last fall but said i wouldn't until he got his shit together and he has. the ony thing now is the fact that we r so close and he's told me that but i dont wanna say sumthin and maybe this be one of those times he doesn't feel the same way or he would opt to to stay friends and not teeter on what we have now. but in either case if i say sumthin and it isn't the right time then i have to live with the fact that things might get weird for both of us even though i stongly doubt they would. again we r sooo close. main thing....i want to be with him or atleast try to be with him and i dont know how to go about doin it....or should i even try?.......i need sum help. this thing is drivin me absolutely crazy especially when we r newhere together. lemme know what u think please.........