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I can’t believe you actually said that I 'MUST INVITE' your son to my wedding. Really. Last I checked it was MY wedding. Just cause you can’t leave your 8 yr old alone doesn’t mean I have to invite him. What it means is that you look for a baby sitter or tell me you can’t come cause you have to look after him. It is not mandatory that I invite him. If you would like to skip my wedding it is also fine. Really. There is no loss and probably more food for the rest sitting at your table.
Also, where the hell do you get off telling me that I should have at least one child. Hello?! People don’t get married just so they can have babies. Marriage and babies are two different things you know? Yes you guessed right, we married for companionship (yes she actually said ‘I guess you marry for companionship', WTF). I know @burbur just wrote about this as well, but really if someone decides they’re not ready / don’t want kids it’s not wrong either (heck, my own mother doesn’t want me to have kids! She says to enjoy my freedom, okay, this is the same woman who didn’t want me to get married either, yes my mother, the commitment phobe). If you want to have kids, have kids but life is not a checklist of things you must do.
no love,
marajaded