If anyone's still following me here who happens to know about the current dealings with
calavasas, please feel free to unfollow me now. I'm not going to write some long angry ranting post about what happened. I'm not even going to explain my reasons because I really shouldn't have to. I'm not even going to lock this entry.
What I will say is this: I made a choice, on my own, to end a friendship I no longer enjoyed, and I had hoped it would be much simpler than what it's turned in to. But the friendship is over, and that's my choice. Mine. There is no "wicked seductress" or "master manipulator" here. And if anyone thinks I was manipulated, that's frankly a bit insulting. I'm a big girl. I can tie my own shoes and wipe my own ass and everything. I've never let myself be manipulated before, so I don't see why I'd start now.
Anyway! If anyone has questions, you can ask, but I will not garuntee any kind of answer. I don't know if anyone will even read this, and that's okay, too. I just hope people can respect that I'm happier now, and feeling excellent about doing something for myself for once, regardless of their personal feelings. I don't expect anyone to make some kind of choice between two people or anything of that nature, and it's been so long since I've been on LiveJournal, that I'm sure some of you have probably forgotten who I am! I just want everyone to do what makes them the most comfortable and go live happy lives.
But, there. That's all I really have to say! Feel free to say your piece and leave, or stay; say nothing or write a novel, whichever you want. I'm cool with whatever.