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If you haven't already done so, read the entry before this one first so this all makes sense!
This entry is public as well to show how delusional my father and stepmom are. This entry is also to thank a few people for their support...
Jessica,
We are so sorry that you feel this way, you are truly an "Unhappy" person. Do you think we were "Stupid"? You only Wanted, Wanted since the minute we reunited, and not for Love, only money. We would have been more than happy to get the prescription glasses for you, but you had to have "THE BEST" $300.00 Tommy Hilfiger frames and didn't even give us a chance to talk about it. We don't have to explain ourselves about the Truck, it first off, is a 1998 that we need as a second car once I start driving. We don't "Commute" to work on train or buses. We payed off the Impala and now are paying the same amount montly, so our finances haven't changed. Not that it is any of your business. I understand that you and your father have unresolved issues and unfortunately that was not my doing, but to speak to me about my family (well, at least I have one that love me and certainly are nothing like your Mother's family...the Apple doesn't fall far from the tree) Remember that...speaking of physco's!!
Don't worry, I wouldn't pick up a drink over you. It's sad for us both to see what a cold hearted, lonely young woman you turned out to be.
Isn't it amazing how they completely missed the whole point of my e-mail? Although, their e-mail back only verified pretty much everything I had to say to them in my e-mail.
Let's break it apart shall we?
-I'm, "Unhappy?" Wow, like I said in my e-mail, you guys really don't know a thing about me. I am one of the happiest people around. Always in high spirits. You will never make me think otherwise.
-I only reunited with you two because I wanted money? You couldn't be more wrong! If that were the case, I would have went after your asses YEARS ago. And that statement, "DO YOU THINK WE WERE STUPID?" only clarifies for me that in between all the times we had these past 6 months, that you two must have discussed the whole time that I was only after money.
-You would have been more than happy to get me prescription glasses but I'm the one who somehow didn't give you the chance to talk about it? When I asked, it was to my Dad, and you weren't even there, and second, he is the one who didn't want to discuss another thing out of it. I never even had the oppurtunity to say what kind of glasses I even wanted?! Where did you even get that I wanted $300 ones? My Dad's only thought was to try to commit insurance fraud by pretending the glasses were for himself, and to put it under his insurance. Like always, he's always trying to beat the system.
-You don't have to explain yourselves about buying a truck? Reallyyy? If I'm correct, you're saying it's for a second car to have for yourself when you get your liscence back right? HEY, what about that Jeep Wrangler you have sitting in a garage that is supposed to be LIKE NEW?
-We payed off the Impala and now are paying the same amount montly, so our finances haven't changed. Not that it is any of your business. How would you like it if I MADE IT MY BUSINESS by actually following through with the courts and getting the $50,000 I deserve?
-We don't "Commute" to work on train or buses. What is that supposed to be a reference to my Mom because she takes the train? Ohhh, good one, way to twist and manipulate the thing around even more.
-well, at least I have one that love me and certainly are nothing like your Mother's family...the Apple doesn't fall far from the tree) Remember that...speaking of physco's!! LOL, I never said my Mom's side of the family wasn't psycho's! That's why you and my Dad fit right in!
-It's sad for us both to see what a cold hearted, lonely young woman you turned out to be. The only cold-hearted one is my father for abandoning his child. You're cold-hearted because you stuck right by him.
I rest my case. :) From that whole e-mail that I originally wrote to them, that is what they got out of it. How sad is that? And that fact that my Dad couldn't even write back something for himself just shows how much of a coward he is... but we all already knew that!
Now let's move on to the second part of this entry. After posting my previous entry and making it for all the public to read, I got something I didn't even expect to get back. I got back support, and overall love from people in my life who aren't even that close to me anymore.
Allie:
1. Those essays were so incredibly good... you should write a book on your life. 2. I always knew your dad was an asshole from what you and your mom had said about him but i never knew the kind of shit he put you both through and it definetly gave me a new outlook on things. 3. i think youve made the right decision. when i first found out that your dad and you were talkign again and you were happy with it and seemed to be having a good time visiting and with family and all that, i was happy for you too, and i thought it would be good for you guys to get to know eachother and for him to see how youve grown and so ona nd so forth, but after reading that whole letter, and how he can buy a brand new car, when hes got many alredy, and how he can live lavishly for himself by buying himself whatever he pleases and partying and all that, and he can not even buy his OWN daughter.. who he should be thankful was back into his life, and who he should be willing to do anything for, glasses that she NEEDS, not even thatyou want just for the hell of it.. thats just plain fucked up. then he didnt even wait for you, yeah it may seem liek a small miniscule thing, but it shows a person cares when they make sure you get in the house okay, especially from a parent...
4th thing... you seriously are stronger than anyone i ever met... and that is definetly something to be adminred.. throught the wholeee time ive known you , you have not let anyone step all over u no matter what, and that can be a hard thing to be able to have that strength all the time, especailly in an 18 year old, thats something rare and definetly somethign to be admired. you should feel good cause u defiently did the right thing, especially before it got worse and tore you apart inside. most people would not have had the confidence to do what you did. so im glad u did.
Then I got another incredible one.
Casey:
i read all of that and all i can say is i admire you so much. it takes a lot for someone to stand up for themselves like that and you are so strong. ever since i met you i knew this and i always admired you and wanted to be able to be as strong as you are. i'm so sorry that really good people, like yourself, always have such hard things to go through. i honestly hate that but i guess hard times are what make people so good. i know we don't really hang out anymore and maybe this may even sound like bs to you but everytime i am in a bad situation i want out of i think of you and i do try and make myself stronger knowing how strong you are. whether you know it or not you have affected my life so much for reasons like that and i am so thankful for you. you are amazing and i'm not even exxagerating.
Casey, that was the most amazing and unexpected thing I have ever gotten. I can't believe people really look at me as that strong of a person. It's sad to see though how my Dad and stepmom refuse to see otherwise! Thank you so much for that comment. That was absolutely beautiful, and when I read it I got goosebumps. Thank you for taking the time out to read all of that when we're not even close anymore. It's a really nice example of how there are people out there who really care without you even realizing it. Thank you thank you thank you. I can't say it enough.
Danielle:
I read both entries.
I'm really sorry about your father & everything. He's such a douche for not realizing that he's missing out on having one of the greatest daughters ever.
Plus, I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself & speaking up. I wouldn't have the courage to do that. Because of this, I admire your strength.
I really don't know what else to say, but keep up the strength & courage. Those are great qualities to have. :)
I am in such a great mood right now. Another person in my shoes would probably be crushed, but I'm not. I knew it would happen sooner or later. Who knew I'd see their true colors this soon though? Wow, I just accomplished so many things within 24 hours. Like you said Allie, I do feel good for what I did, and like yourself, I'm glad I did it too! :)
By the way... I chose to make all of this public, and to post it in my Away Message & Bulletin so that everyone knows THE TRUTH, and not another side.
Edit 7:24PM: Added another supportive response. :)!
This entry is public as well to show how delusional my father and stepmom are. This entry is also to thank a few people for their support...
Jessica,
We are so sorry that you feel this way, you are truly an "Unhappy" person. Do you think we were "Stupid"? You only Wanted, Wanted since the minute we reunited, and not for Love, only money. We would have been more than happy to get the prescription glasses for you, but you had to have "THE BEST" $300.00 Tommy Hilfiger frames and didn't even give us a chance to talk about it. We don't have to explain ourselves about the Truck, it first off, is a 1998 that we need as a second car once I start driving. We don't "Commute" to work on train or buses. We payed off the Impala and now are paying the same amount montly, so our finances haven't changed. Not that it is any of your business. I understand that you and your father have unresolved issues and unfortunately that was not my doing, but to speak to me about my family (well, at least I have one that love me and certainly are nothing like your Mother's family...the Apple doesn't fall far from the tree) Remember that...speaking of physco's!!
Don't worry, I wouldn't pick up a drink over you. It's sad for us both to see what a cold hearted, lonely young woman you turned out to be.
Isn't it amazing how they completely missed the whole point of my e-mail? Although, their e-mail back only verified pretty much everything I had to say to them in my e-mail.
Let's break it apart shall we?
-I'm, "Unhappy?" Wow, like I said in my e-mail, you guys really don't know a thing about me. I am one of the happiest people around. Always in high spirits. You will never make me think otherwise.
-I only reunited with you two because I wanted money? You couldn't be more wrong! If that were the case, I would have went after your asses YEARS ago. And that statement, "DO YOU THINK WE WERE STUPID?" only clarifies for me that in between all the times we had these past 6 months, that you two must have discussed the whole time that I was only after money.
-You would have been more than happy to get me prescription glasses but I'm the one who somehow didn't give you the chance to talk about it? When I asked, it was to my Dad, and you weren't even there, and second, he is the one who didn't want to discuss another thing out of it. I never even had the oppurtunity to say what kind of glasses I even wanted?! Where did you even get that I wanted $300 ones? My Dad's only thought was to try to commit insurance fraud by pretending the glasses were for himself, and to put it under his insurance. Like always, he's always trying to beat the system.
-You don't have to explain yourselves about buying a truck? Reallyyy? If I'm correct, you're saying it's for a second car to have for yourself when you get your liscence back right? HEY, what about that Jeep Wrangler you have sitting in a garage that is supposed to be LIKE NEW?
-We payed off the Impala and now are paying the same amount montly, so our finances haven't changed. Not that it is any of your business. How would you like it if I MADE IT MY BUSINESS by actually following through with the courts and getting the $50,000 I deserve?
-We don't "Commute" to work on train or buses. What is that supposed to be a reference to my Mom because she takes the train? Ohhh, good one, way to twist and manipulate the thing around even more.
-well, at least I have one that love me and certainly are nothing like your Mother's family...the Apple doesn't fall far from the tree) Remember that...speaking of physco's!! LOL, I never said my Mom's side of the family wasn't psycho's! That's why you and my Dad fit right in!
-It's sad for us both to see what a cold hearted, lonely young woman you turned out to be. The only cold-hearted one is my father for abandoning his child. You're cold-hearted because you stuck right by him.
I rest my case. :) From that whole e-mail that I originally wrote to them, that is what they got out of it. How sad is that? And that fact that my Dad couldn't even write back something for himself just shows how much of a coward he is... but we all already knew that!
Now let's move on to the second part of this entry. After posting my previous entry and making it for all the public to read, I got something I didn't even expect to get back. I got back support, and overall love from people in my life who aren't even that close to me anymore.
Allie:
1. Those essays were so incredibly good... you should write a book on your life. 2. I always knew your dad was an asshole from what you and your mom had said about him but i never knew the kind of shit he put you both through and it definetly gave me a new outlook on things. 3. i think youve made the right decision. when i first found out that your dad and you were talkign again and you were happy with it and seemed to be having a good time visiting and with family and all that, i was happy for you too, and i thought it would be good for you guys to get to know eachother and for him to see how youve grown and so ona nd so forth, but after reading that whole letter, and how he can buy a brand new car, when hes got many alredy, and how he can live lavishly for himself by buying himself whatever he pleases and partying and all that, and he can not even buy his OWN daughter.. who he should be thankful was back into his life, and who he should be willing to do anything for, glasses that she NEEDS, not even thatyou want just for the hell of it.. thats just plain fucked up. then he didnt even wait for you, yeah it may seem liek a small miniscule thing, but it shows a person cares when they make sure you get in the house okay, especially from a parent...
4th thing... you seriously are stronger than anyone i ever met... and that is definetly something to be adminred.. throught the wholeee time ive known you , you have not let anyone step all over u no matter what, and that can be a hard thing to be able to have that strength all the time, especailly in an 18 year old, thats something rare and definetly somethign to be admired. you should feel good cause u defiently did the right thing, especially before it got worse and tore you apart inside. most people would not have had the confidence to do what you did. so im glad u did.
Then I got another incredible one.
Casey:
i read all of that and all i can say is i admire you so much. it takes a lot for someone to stand up for themselves like that and you are so strong. ever since i met you i knew this and i always admired you and wanted to be able to be as strong as you are. i'm so sorry that really good people, like yourself, always have such hard things to go through. i honestly hate that but i guess hard times are what make people so good. i know we don't really hang out anymore and maybe this may even sound like bs to you but everytime i am in a bad situation i want out of i think of you and i do try and make myself stronger knowing how strong you are. whether you know it or not you have affected my life so much for reasons like that and i am so thankful for you. you are amazing and i'm not even exxagerating.
Casey, that was the most amazing and unexpected thing I have ever gotten. I can't believe people really look at me as that strong of a person. It's sad to see though how my Dad and stepmom refuse to see otherwise! Thank you so much for that comment. That was absolutely beautiful, and when I read it I got goosebumps. Thank you for taking the time out to read all of that when we're not even close anymore. It's a really nice example of how there are people out there who really care without you even realizing it. Thank you thank you thank you. I can't say it enough.
Danielle:
I read both entries.
I'm really sorry about your father & everything. He's such a douche for not realizing that he's missing out on having one of the greatest daughters ever.
Plus, I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself & speaking up. I wouldn't have the courage to do that. Because of this, I admire your strength.
I really don't know what else to say, but keep up the strength & courage. Those are great qualities to have. :)
I am in such a great mood right now. Another person in my shoes would probably be crushed, but I'm not. I knew it would happen sooner or later. Who knew I'd see their true colors this soon though? Wow, I just accomplished so many things within 24 hours. Like you said Allie, I do feel good for what I did, and like yourself, I'm glad I did it too! :)
By the way... I chose to make all of this public, and to post it in my Away Message & Bulletin so that everyone knows THE TRUTH, and not another side.
Edit 7:24PM: Added another supportive response. :)!