I know exactly how you feel...when I was home I was 19 yrs old...I sorta moved out right before my 20th bday...but it was like I didn't live home anyways...I had an 11 o'clock curfew..at 19 yrs old...it was the same curfew I had when I was in 8th grade...I had never been allowed to go skating...and DEF not over night skates cuz only bad parents allow their children to go to them...(which would make my mothers best friend a bad parent...) my brother is 13...he can go skating..he stays out till whenver he wants never tells them where he's going...swears at my mom hit her...I mean...I was a good kid and I never got to do half the shit he does at half my age...I'm dreading going back home..haha..
I hear yea hun...and if you ever need anyone I'm here. ~Krys
I understand. Completely... I so don't wanna go back there...but I guess I have no where else to go. sooo..yea. moving back home sucks ass... Specially since it annoies me beyond believe how my little brother treats my mom...if I had ever done that I would have gotten my ass beat..haha
EXACTLY!!!!!!!! when i talk back im still scared im gonna get a beat down... whereas my sister talks so freely and its like little bitch you need to recognize.....
totally, see i know my place, i was taught my place, she on the other hand is a lost cause.... but straight up i will put her in her place if this bullshit keeps up
wow, i guess that explains alot of things with the whole walking out ive been their (it was only a few months ago) and well my mum also reported a missing person thingumy i was 16 (still am) so she couldnt take my home and i went to my best friends house(ex best friend now) and they told me to fone her n stuff and we obv got NOTHING sorted but my friends house was gettin crowded wi her wee brothers so i had to go back and now its the same situation here when i go out "where you goin,. how long will you ber, when will you be back, who will you be with, take your mobile, why you got a bag ? dont take money out with you, you dont need it" at that pish really no need for it and i dont have any sisters like but my little cousins are always in and well she treasts them just like the same with your little sister they get treated like more of an adult (sorry for the long story their is a point) i pulled the (pa)RENTS up about it n they said "running away was very childissh so if your gonna act like a child we'll treat you like one".. maybe
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well see thats what i think at times, maybe they have reasons to treat me this way, but even when i lived on my own they treated me like a kid, even when i was paying rent, even when i was taking care of everything while my mom was sick...
and its getting rather disgusting cause im not a child.
well as i see it you've proved your responsible.. and obv mature enough .. have you tryed talkin to 'em ? ask them why they treat you so ? and maybe yous could get everything sorted but as i see it theirs nothing to be sorted.. u proved urself as a responsible adult.. :S x
Brings back some memories... Okay, people are gonna chew me out about this, but if family doesn't treat you with the same love and respect you show them, that they want from you, they need a reality check. If they can't handle the fact that you're an adult now, you may need to take it upon yourself to make this known. Now, I'm not saying it'll result in good things. In some ways, it might, and in other ways, it might not. But yeah, I'd leave, and I'd make it known to them straight out that what they have done/are doing is wrong. There shouldn't be any double standards -- especially when it comes to family. For this reason, I don't talk to my mom or her side of the family any more.
they sound like a buch of fucktards... that's why you gotsta' harden that heart and let them know that you wont take shit from their fucktard asses. I'd leave if I was you... leave and fuck them... but beat the shit out of your sister befor you go...and draw on her walls with crayon... might as well prove their point before you disapear for like however long you can stand not being assosiated with them. You will find that idiots come around less often if you are an asswhole. If you don't leave you're just proving a point... your over 18... your ass should be gone... I was outa my moms house at 14... gone... the bitch figured out I wasn't going to play her games and come back either.
well this is what happens when you have to much love and respect..... i mean you have no fucking idea how heavenly every word of what you said sounds....
i told one of my friends when i leave im gonna steal a bunch of my sisters stuff cause shes always bitching about how i use her stuff and she never uses mine...
and i plan to make myself perfectly clear when i do leave that im not coming back... and that my life will be better without them cause i will be able to prove to myself for once that i am a grown up without having any of them put me down and make me feel like a fucking child...
i totally know the feeling. i'm 23 and i still feel like i have to tell my mom everywhere i go, when i'm leaving and who i'm with. like i was in high school all over again. i even lied to her about where i was all the time. now i tell her cuz she's sick and she should know just in case. but i felt this way before she got sick. so i was pissed all the time. and she wondered why i resented her so goddamn much!
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I hear yea hun...and if you ever need anyone I'm here.
~Krys
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I so don't wanna go back there...but I guess I have no where else to go. sooo..yea.
moving back home sucks ass...
Specially since it annoies me beyond believe how my little brother treats my mom...if I had ever done that I would have gotten my ass beat..haha
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yea moving back home sucks dirty poopie ass
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and its getting rather disgusting cause im not a child.
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Luv
Shivonne xx
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::hugs:: Good luck with this, hope all goes well.
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i told one of my friends when i leave im gonna steal a bunch of my sisters stuff cause shes always bitching about how i use her stuff and she never uses mine...
and i plan to make myself perfectly clear when i do leave that im not coming back... and that my life will be better without them cause i will be able to prove to myself for once that i am a grown up without having any of them put me down and make me feel like a fucking child...
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