why is it expected?

Sep 13, 2007 23:27

I am happy being single. I dont know why people seem to make a single person feel bad because they are not in a relationship. It hurts to gets those little head tilt "how's it going" kind of thing.. I dont want or ask people to apologize for me not having a relationship or me not dating anyone at the current moment.

why?

Because I dont know much of being in a relationship to want it. I have been single for years now. I enjoy it. Yes, it gets lonely every once in a while. But not the kind of lonely where I am missing something. There is nothing for me to miss. I see other people in relationships and it is hard work. I applaud them for having a go at it. However, right now I dont have the time or energy to put up with petty fights that occur, let alone huge problems that lead to breaking up that lead to depression.

So I dont know why I feel the need to post this.. especially on here. I havent used this site for over 8 months.. it's just nice to have an outlet where no one visits..
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