A Terrible No Good Very Bad Day
Is today over yet? What about the next year and a half? Can John and I elope, would anyone care? I am so frusturated with my uncle and super mad at my mom, and even though she may have no part in this, I am also frusturated with my aunt-- I think it is guilt by association. There is a Family Day at the base in Georgia in May, but I am "not allowed" to go... and because a family day has been scheduled, that most likely means that none of the units will be able to come home in late May/early June like they were supposed to, which also means I will not see my Uncle for approximately the next year and a half to two years.
Based on the events of last night, I am begining to believe that my Uncle has had some doing in the things my mom told me the other night such as, "You can not simply put your life on hold because you love your uncle."-- This meaning "Go ahead and plan your wedding, it does not matter if your uncle is not there." Well, yes it does matter. He is practically like a brother to me, sure, I will be sure to make sure he misses out on the most important day in my life... GGGRRRR!!!! So now, John and I are faced with what to do about the wedding... now it is starting to sound like it will be in 2007, most likely September, so 2 1/2 yrs away instead of 1 1/2.
I may also be moving into John's parents house for the remaining 5 weeks until the closing on our house, because I have reached the breaking point being around all that sometimes... We shall see what happens in the next few days....
Based on the events of last night, I am begining to believe that my Uncle has had some doing in the things my mom told me the other night such as, "You can not simply put your life on hold because you love your uncle."-- This meaning "Go ahead and plan your wedding, it does not matter if your uncle is not there." Well, yes it does matter. He is practically like a brother to me, sure, I will be sure to make sure he misses out on the most important day in my life... GGGRRRR!!!! So now, John and I are faced with what to do about the wedding... now it is starting to sound like it will be in 2007, most likely September, so 2 1/2 yrs away instead of 1 1/2.
I may also be moving into John's parents house for the remaining 5 weeks until the closing on our house, because I have reached the breaking point being around all that sometimes... We shall see what happens in the next few days....