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[manda1547]

What I’ve Learned About Life I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back. I've learned that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to; doesn’t mean that they don’t love you with all that they have. I've learned that it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it. I've learned that it's not what you have inf life but who you have in your life that counts. I've learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that you’d better know something. I've learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do, but the best that you can do. I've learned that it's not what happens to people that is important, it's what they do about it. I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it; there is always two sides. I've learned that it's taking a long time for me to become the person that I want to be. I've learned that it is a lot easier to react than it is to think. I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with caring words. It may be the last time you see them. I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't. I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. I've learned that either you control your attitude or it will control you. I've learned that no matter how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there better be something there to take it's place. I've learned that heroes are the people that do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice. I've learned that there are people that love you dearly, but just don’t know how to show it. I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score. I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time. I've learned that people that you expect to kick you down will be the ones to help you get back up. I've learned that sometimes when I am angry I have the right to be angry, but it doesn’t give me the right to be cruel. I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even ovre the longest distances. Same goes for love. I'VE LEARNED THAT MATURITY HAS MORE TO DO WITH WHAT TYPES OF EXPERIENCES THAT YOU’VE HAD AND WHAT YOU’VE LEARNED FROM THEM AND LESS TO DO WITH HOW MANY BIRTHDAYS YOU’VE CELEBRATED. I've learned that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it. I've learned that your family won’t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren’t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren’t biological. I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they are going to hurt you once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I've learned that it isn’t enough to be forgiven by others; sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself. I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken; the world doesn’t stop for your grief. I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we became. I've learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I’m forced to choose sides even when I don’t want to. I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, doesn’t mean they do. I've learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions. I've learned that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change. I've learned that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever. I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. I've learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process. I've learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love. I've learned that no matter the consequences, those we are honest with themselves get farther in life. I've learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them the most. I've learned that your life can change in a matter of hours by people that don’t even know you. I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help. I've learned that writing as well as talking can ease emotional pains. I've learned that the paradigm we live in is not all that is offered to us. I've learned that credentials in the wall do not make you a decent human being. I've learned that the people that we care most about in life are taken from you too soon. I've learned that although the word love can have many different meanings, it loses value when overly used. And I've learned that it is hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting someone’s feelings, and standing up for what you believe.