http://health.yahoo.com/experts/menlovesex/61750/5-ways-to-keep-your-man-from-straying WTF? Exactly *how* is it a woman's responsibility to keep a man faithful? MY job is to keep *me* faithful*. My effort to keep HusbandMan faithful consists of having married a man of integrity and loyalty. Beyond that, his fidelity is *his* effort.
I hat this kind of bullshit. I hate the "men cheat because women fail to do X, Y or Z" mentality. The same applies in reverse, but you hear it less. Making your partner happy is one thing. Taking on accountability for their cheating is another entirely.
Grown-up men are accountable for the actions of their own penises, regardless of whether their partner thought to plan "Scrabble night."