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It is so hard to not be pissed at my ex-wife right now. She has been court ordered to pay child support for five months and has been working since late December and I have only gotten $150. Then she screwed me up by refusing to tell me when she wanted the kids for the summer. The truth is the number of time she told me she would see the kids and hasn’t probably lead to me signing them up for the whole summer anyways. Really she doesn’t help with the kids almost at all, not their care and barely their support if you could call it that.
I think I am the angriest with her because I see how it hurts my children. They need a mother. Hell my youngest daughter cries for her all the time.
I mean, am I wrong for to be angry at here?
These kids are her responsibility too. She chose to live where she is at, she yelled at me at time because I thought it would be better if she lived near the kids. She would scream that I couldn’t tell her what to do, but then she could find work because there wasn’t work where she chose to live.
I just feel like she doesn’t care about her children. That she feels her own life is more important and she doesn’t want to be held back by them. Of course she doesn’t care who she hurts as long as she gets what she wants. Maybe I would like a life too.
I am so tempted to start being difficult with her about money and her seeing the kids only when the divorce agreement states she can but that will only end up hurting my children.
Guess I just needed to rant.
I think I am the angriest with her because I see how it hurts my children. They need a mother. Hell my youngest daughter cries for her all the time.
I mean, am I wrong for to be angry at here?
These kids are her responsibility too. She chose to live where she is at, she yelled at me at time because I thought it would be better if she lived near the kids. She would scream that I couldn’t tell her what to do, but then she could find work because there wasn’t work where she chose to live.
I just feel like she doesn’t care about her children. That she feels her own life is more important and she doesn’t want to be held back by them. Of course she doesn’t care who she hurts as long as she gets what she wants. Maybe I would like a life too.
I am so tempted to start being difficult with her about money and her seeing the kids only when the divorce agreement states she can but that will only end up hurting my children.
Guess I just needed to rant.