Just like you, I'm not perfect. I neglected to add the part about not wanting to be long winded, but that still didn't deserve the comment I got back. Sorry...but it didn't.
If you choose to drop me from your friends lists, that's entirely up to you. I've never ONCE asked you not to talk about something because it might upset me. Plenty of shit upsets me on a daily basis when I deal with people and I don't yammer on about it, because I'm really damn good at getting over it.
I never said anything at all about us needing to agree with each other constantly. We don't. As a matter of fact, there are plenty of things we DON'T agree about. That's not how I choose my friends. I'm sorry you think it is.
You do what you feel is necessary in this situation. Just like you, I'm not going to walk on eggshells. I've never been one to do that and I'm not going to start now. As much as I love you, and I do dearly, I shouldn't have to feel berated either for having my emotions (good, bad, indifferent).
Let me know what you intend to do and we'll go from there.
You HAVE told me, over and over and over, that you have advice to give, but you're not going to give it. Or you have something to say, but you're not going to say it. Or you have an opinion, but you're not going to say it. We've been around the bend on this one more than once, I told you that it hurts my feelings and also sounds snippy and immature when you say that, and we've left it at that, but when it sounded like you were doing that again, it DID deserve the comment you got back. If you've told me over and over that something hurts your feelings and I say it again, I expect you to get snippy because you're human. You apparently don't extend me the same courtesy. So we have a situation here. When I saw you say again "I have something to say but I'm eating my opinions," sorry that I didn't read your mind and know exactly what you meant, but I wasn't going to be able to read your mind and know what you were talking about, so I snapped at you for saying it and hurting me again even when we'd discussed this before. Then you corrected me and I apologized. I don't like having people in my life who feel the need to tell me that they have something to say, but they're not going to say it. That's like having a little kid come up and say "I know something you don't know but I'm not telling!" It's ridiculous, and as I've told you before, it makes me feel that they they're afraid to talk to me or something, and that hurts. Ok, true, this isn't what you were saying, but I didn't know that. Again, I am sorry, I thought you were doing that again, saying that you had something to say but you wouldn't say it, and it annoyed me and I got upset. But I don't appreciate your attitude toward me. I didn't berate you any more than you're doing to me right now, I thought you said something hurtful and I defended myself, just like you feel the need to do right now. Somehow you see that what you're doing is right and what I did is wrong. That's unfortunate. I still don't understand your tone here. If you think I "yammer on" too much about people and things because I'm not "really damn good at getting over it" then you can leave at any time. THAT'S "what the hell" I'm talking about. I'm not going to pretend I was right to snap at you, but I'm also not going to let you snap at me like this.
Just like you, I'm not perfect. I neglected to add the part about not wanting to be long winded, but that still didn't deserve the comment I got back. Sorry...but it didn't.
If you choose to drop me from your friends lists, that's entirely up to you. I've never ONCE asked you not to talk about something because it might upset me. Plenty of shit upsets me on a daily basis when I deal with people and I don't yammer on about it, because I'm really damn good at getting over it.
I never said anything at all about us needing to agree with each other constantly. We don't. As a matter of fact, there are plenty of things we DON'T agree about. That's not how I choose my friends. I'm sorry you think it is.
You do what you feel is necessary in this situation. Just like you, I'm not going to walk on eggshells. I've never been one to do that and I'm not going to start now. As much as I love you, and I do dearly, I shouldn't have to feel berated either for having my emotions (good, bad, indifferent).
Let me know what you intend to do and we'll go from there.
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