The truth is, professional help isn't much help these days. Finding a doctor or therapist who gives a crap or can even find anything that helps is almost impossible or at the least VERY daunting.
Weight loss is a battle. I gained a lot on meds. You saw me when I first started dating Tristan. I'm 113# now. It's just a matter of what do you want more? If you give up crackers and breads and fast food and drink only no calorie drinks, and stuff you WILL loose weight. Nothing tastes as good as thin feels.
It's good you are looking at how you feel about Chris and his relationships with other people. You probably don't want to hear this but you cannot be everything to Chris. You'll have a better relationship if you don't try to mother him. I know you want to fill as much of the emptiness as possible with loving him, and showing him love. But it's ok for him to have a relationship with his step mom. Maybe this brought them closer.
Have you considered living with Chris' family as long as they will let you? It would save you money and it might be nice to get close to his fmaily. It would take pressure off you too.
Weight loss is a battle. I gained a lot on meds. You saw me when I first started dating Tristan. I'm 113# now. It's just a matter of what do you want more? If you give up crackers and breads and fast food and drink only no calorie drinks, and stuff you WILL loose weight. Nothing tastes as good as thin feels.
It's good you are looking at how you feel about Chris and his relationships with other people. You probably don't want to hear this but you cannot be everything to Chris. You'll have a better relationship if you don't try to mother him. I know you want to fill as much of the emptiness as possible with loving him, and showing him love. But it's ok for him to have a relationship with his step mom. Maybe this brought them closer.
Have you considered living with Chris' family as long as they will let you? It would save you money and it might be nice to get close to his fmaily. It would take pressure off you too.
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