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I really am annoyed about something. My mother keeps advising me that it would be wiser to be a little more silent, when I meet a guy, to just look at him, study him and see if he's the one interested to talk to me. Hell, what's this? Love at first sight? Jesus, I can't just say "Oh, hy, I'm Ruxandra, nice to meet you" and then shut up like a dumb ass. I like to talk, to communicate with people I see for the first time, to see how they think, how they are, if we have common tastes! She was like "Don't rush and start asking "So do you like tennis/Nightwish/travelling/Twilight(or whatever!)?" Be more reserved!". Ok, fine, I'll shut up and if he doesn't ask me first, I'll never say anything. My point is, is it annoying for a guy such a thing? I don't find it annoying to ask somebody some basic questions, such as how old are you, where do you study, how did you meet (the common friend)?
My mom thinks that the basic problem of mine for not having a bf is that I'm too friendly with boys. Well, I just can't do everything she stated above. I can't shut up, not communicate, if I feel like doing the opposite. It's not me..Besides, Alex liked me just the way I am, friendly or not friendlier. Commerade, as my mom said. >_> I don't know, why talking to a guy you meet for the first time is such a bad move? :\
Anyway, to sum up she thought I should be more misterious.
1. She herself wasn't very good at this so she shouldn't tell me to be so.
2. If anybody can tell me what does a girl have to do to be misterious, I'd be very very very glad!
*sigh* Gee, sometimes I simply am fed up with love or trying to have a bf...But I don't wanna give up... :-<
My mom thinks that the basic problem of mine for not having a bf is that I'm too friendly with boys. Well, I just can't do everything she stated above. I can't shut up, not communicate, if I feel like doing the opposite. It's not me..Besides, Alex liked me just the way I am, friendly or not friendlier. Commerade, as my mom said. >_> I don't know, why talking to a guy you meet for the first time is such a bad move? :\
Anyway, to sum up she thought I should be more misterious.
1. She herself wasn't very good at this so she shouldn't tell me to be so.
2. If anybody can tell me what does a girl have to do to be misterious, I'd be very very very glad!
*sigh* Gee, sometimes I simply am fed up with love or trying to have a bf...But I don't wanna give up... :-<