Handwriting thing!

Oct 17, 2004 00:37

For a graphologist, the spacing on the page reflects the writer's attitude toward their own world and relationship to things in his or her own space. If the inputted data was correct Andre has no white space or margins on a typical sheet of paper. Andre fills up every last inch on the top, right, left, and bottom. Hmmm. If this is true, then Andre has a very aggressive personality toward others and quite frankly lacks a bit of respect for the space and property of other people. I would be surprised if Andre just comes into someone's home and helps hisself to a drink in the refrigerator. This can be both an obnoxious personality trait and it can be assertive and effective in getting what you want. There isn't much fear of getting in trouble here, Andre finds plenty of reasons to break the rules and get in trouble. (Okay, perhaps when he was younger, not anymore?) Basically, people with no margins are a handful.
Andre exaggerates about everything that has a physical nature. Although he may not intend to deceive or mislead, he blows things way out of proportion because that is the way he views them. He will be a good story teller. This exaggeration relates to all areas of his material world. Andre allows many people into his life because he is accepting and trusting. He is sometimes called gullible by his friends. That only really means that he trusts too many people. Andre has a vivid imagination.
Andre has a healthy imagination and displays a fair amount of trust. He lets new people into his circle of friends. He uses his imagination to understand new ideas, things, and people.
Something is incomplete in Andre's life. He feels frustration relating to his physical needs and desires. Somewhere in his life there is some disappointment, non-fulfillment, and interruption. This is very likely to relate to Andre's sexual needs.

One way Andre punishes hisself is self directed sarcasm. He is a very sarcastic person. Often this sarcasm and "sharp tongued" behavior is directed at hisself.
Andre's true self-image is unreasonably low. Someone once told Andre that he wasn't a great and beautiful person, and he believed them. Andre also has a fear that he might fail if he takes large risks. Therefore he resists setting his goals too high, risking failure. He doesn't have the internal confidence that frees him to take risks and chance failure. Andre is capable of accomplishing much more than he is presently achieving. All this relates to his self-esteem. Andre's self-concept is artificially low. Andre will stay in a bad situation much too long... why? Because he is afraid that if he makes a change, it might get worse. It is hard for Andre to plan too far into the future. He kind of takes things on a day to day basis. He may tell you his dreams but he is living in today, with a fear of making a change. No matter how loud he speaks, look at his actions. This is perhaps the biggest single barrier to happiness people not believing in and loving themselves. Andre is an example of someone living with a low self-image, because their innate self-confidence was broken.
In reference to Andre's mental abilities, he has a very investigating and creating mind. He investigates projects rapidly because he is curious about many things. He gets involved in many projects that seem good at the beginning, but he soon must slow down and look at all the angles. He probably gets too many things going at once. When Andre slows down, then he becomes more creative than before. Since it takes time to be creative, he must slow down to do it. He then decides what projects he has time to finish. Thus he finishes at a slower pace than when he started the project. He has the best of two kinds of minds. One is the quick investigating mind. The other is the creative mind. His mind thinks quick and rapidly in the investigative mode. He can learn quicker, investigate more, and think faster. Andre can then switch into his low gear. When he is in the slower mode, he can be creative, remember longer and stack facts in a logical manner. He is more logical this way and can climb mental mountains with a much better grip.
Diplomacy is one of Andre's best attributes. He has the ability to say what others want to hear. He can have tact with others. He has the ability to state things in such a way as to not offend someone else. Andre can disagree without being disagreeable.
Andre is secretive. He has secrets which he does not wish to share with others. He intentionally conceals things about hisself. He has a private side that he intends to keep that way, especially concerning certain events in his past.

Andre is moderately outgoing. His emotions are stirred by sympathy and heart rendering stories. In fact, he can be kind, friendly, affectionate and considerate of others. He has the ability to put hisself into the other person's shoes. Andre will be somewhat moody, with lows and highs. Sometimes he will be happy, the next day he might be sad. He has the unique ability to get along equally well with what psychology calls introverts and extroverts. This is because he is in between. Psychology calls Andre an ambivert. He understands the needs of both types. Although they get along, he will not tolerate anyone that is too "far out." He doesn't sway too far one way or the other. When convincing him to buy a product or an idea, a heart rendering story could mean a great deal to him. He puts hisself in the same situation as the person in the story, yet he will not buy anything that seems overly impractical or illogical. Andre is an expressive person. He outwardly shows his emotions. He may even show traces of tears when hearing a sad story. Andre is a "middle-of-the-roader," politically as well as logically. He weighs both sides of an issue, sits on the fence, and then will decide when he finally has to. He basically doesn't relate to any far out ideas and usually won't go to the extreme on any issue.
People that write their letters in an average height and average size are moderate in their ability to interact socially. According to the data input, Andre doesn't write too large or too small, indicating a balanced ability to be social and interact with others. Read more about his emotional expressiveness in the section on emotions and slant.
Andre can be defiant. He sometimes has the attitude that if someone doesn't like it the way he is doing it, then they can just "go to hell!" This trait may reveal itself in a rebellious nature that is always ready to resist forces which he thinks are infringing upon his freedom of action.

As for the 15 statements/opinions/stuff, I think I'll do it later. But since I have only 18 people in my Friend's list, it won't be too difficult to guess who's who.
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