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I would just like to rant for a moment...
I AM A GOOD FRIEND.
I have always taken pride in being a good friend. Of course, there have been times when I have gotten caught up in something, but people call me out and I come back to reality, people can't be perfect all the time. I call when I promise I'm going to, I return messages, I write e-mails, I send cards, I send text messages and I leave random notes. I'm a pretty damn good friend and I have every right to have an ego about it if I want to.... So, doesn't a good friend deserve to have a good friend back.. of course! It seems like a good friend would know how to pick other good friends, but I guess not. If you're my friend, I'm calling you out! I'm sick of being walked over, abused, hurt and taken advantage of. I wont have it anymore. If I keep getting treated the way I am currently, it's ta-ta with your ass because I'm sick to death of it. Now, I'm not saying all my friends are bad. I have Mallory, she's a real good pal. If I make plans with her, I can excpect them to follow through. If I IM her in my time of need, I would never expect to get a "hang on, I'm watching Seinfeld" or something like that. You know who else is a good friend, Hal. Why? Because Hal appreciates me and tries her best to return the favors. I can most definetly rely on her to call/text/write me back and she always keeps her promises. and perhaps Halie has given me an ulcer or two with her lateness, but good friends see past little flukes. We all have them.... So, here's the deal... Don't tell me you're going to call and then don't. Don't say "Hey, lets make plans" and then not, Don't tell me that I'm your "BFF" and then ignore me when I IM you or call you. SCREW THAT. I'm done with that crap.