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Misadventures in dating part MDCXVII
I had started communicating with a guy a few days ago. We met on a SINGLES dating site. The conversations seemed to be sane and interesting so we progressed to texting. This went on a few days. He then wanted to see more pictures of me so i directed him to my instragram account. When he added me i started to see his account. I saw a few photos of " i love my wife" "married life" and other weird hashtags. So i looked him up via facebook with his cell number. I then noticed a million more pictures of him kissing this woman he said was his wife.
---Confused I was I shot him a text asking him if he had any secrets he wanted to tell me. He either playing stupid or just stupid said no and asked why. I then stated I noticed his FB and instagram had pictures of his WIFE. I told him I was done and was not interesting in cheating men and I am not poly nor do i care to be in a messy situation.------
--- HE THEN TEXTS ME THIS ----" yes i am married. To Lulu.my best friend. we married because we are best friends and never wanna be alone. i did not mean to come acrose as a lie. its just on a need to know basis. why tell someone unless it matters? i was still unsure if you'd meet, let alone be with me. I figured why mention it? unless you asked if i was married. its not a traditional marriage. its technically poly-amorous but she and i are not sexual or romantic. we just take care of each other and promote each others happiness. think what you want. assume what you will. no drama here at all. if you want to end things here. I understand. if you want drama free fun with me that'd be great. sorry if you feel led astray. I hope to hear from you."
so Why the fuck do i need to ask if you are single if you are on a singles dating site???? What the fuck??? seriously and then to tell me i am assuming and blah blah laying blame one me ???
I deleted my dating profile I am done with online dating
I had started communicating with a guy a few days ago. We met on a SINGLES dating site. The conversations seemed to be sane and interesting so we progressed to texting. This went on a few days. He then wanted to see more pictures of me so i directed him to my instragram account. When he added me i started to see his account. I saw a few photos of " i love my wife" "married life" and other weird hashtags. So i looked him up via facebook with his cell number. I then noticed a million more pictures of him kissing this woman he said was his wife.
---Confused I was I shot him a text asking him if he had any secrets he wanted to tell me. He either playing stupid or just stupid said no and asked why. I then stated I noticed his FB and instagram had pictures of his WIFE. I told him I was done and was not interesting in cheating men and I am not poly nor do i care to be in a messy situation.------
--- HE THEN TEXTS ME THIS ----" yes i am married. To Lulu.my best friend. we married because we are best friends and never wanna be alone. i did not mean to come acrose as a lie. its just on a need to know basis. why tell someone unless it matters? i was still unsure if you'd meet, let alone be with me. I figured why mention it? unless you asked if i was married. its not a traditional marriage. its technically poly-amorous but she and i are not sexual or romantic. we just take care of each other and promote each others happiness. think what you want. assume what you will. no drama here at all. if you want to end things here. I understand. if you want drama free fun with me that'd be great. sorry if you feel led astray. I hope to hear from you."
so Why the fuck do i need to ask if you are single if you are on a singles dating site???? What the fuck??? seriously and then to tell me i am assuming and blah blah laying blame one me ???
I deleted my dating profile I am done with online dating