http://www.innocents.com/shrine.asp this website was unbelievably helpful to me when i needed both a reminder of my child, and closure.. they pray for all the children who have died unborn, and specificly the children who are sent in by their parents or loved ones, those names are written in a special "book of life' and prayed over. also they email you a printable certificate that is suitable for framing.. back in the day they just mailed them out and they are very beautiful. I have mine hung on the wall with my daughter joylyns birth certificate.. so all my little ones in heaven are recognized in one place.. it helps alot to have something solid i can touch and see...