Backdating: Things with me can drag on for a long time due to timezone issues, so this will be invoked a lot.
Threadhopping/jacking: Ask the muns involved first, please.
Breaking the 4th wall: Stuff like "Hey, you're a l'Cie, aren't you?" are allowed, but nothing about being a video game character, please. RPG characters are delicate creatures.
Hugging: Go right ahead. She'll warm up to that if she knows and likes a person.
Flirting: Expect her to flirt right back ;D
Kissing and/or other intimate actions: As long as there's been some good CR between characters, I don't see why not. If she doesn't like someone, expect someone to lose a limb or two, or at the very least get an earful of angry amazon.
Relationships: I'm all for her to have a lover or a boy/girlfriend, but since Vanille and her castmates come first, she wont be dropping everything just because she's dating someone.
Kinks:
Yes: Bondage , threesomes, orgies, toys, anal, aphrodisiacs, anonymous sex, voyeurism, exhibitionism, food sex,
No: Blood, knifeplay, torture
Maybe so: Roleplay, watersports (showers or baths are perfectly okay though), wax, BDSM (depending on the intensity)
If you're not sure about something, feel free to message me.
Violence: Yes, you may pick a fight with her, but I wont guarantee that she'll lie down and take it.
Anything else: Want to plot? Hit me up!