An Interesting Social Experiment
Recently, I updated my profile information on my Bear411 site to better reflect who I am and what I want out of the site. The hope was that people would read it before messaging me and I would then filter out those who I don't click with at all
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When I see profiles that are really long or contain a laundry list of reasons why I might not like a person, I generally don't bother to read them because I assume that the guy is either bitter, high-maintenance, or a combination of the two. From what I've read in your journal, I wouldn't say that's an accurate description, but I might think otherwise if that profile was our introduction.
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Your assumptions about a profile such as mine casts you in a negative light as well...it makes you appear to be a shallow, self-absorbed person.
god forbid someone should be unique or challenging...I guess a guy is only useful if he's got his shit together, there's nothing offensive about him and he doesn't require any adjustments to assimilate him into your life.
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it will be in point form for easy consumption.
I like people who make me laugh so feel free to try.
I really hate club music, gangsta rap and indie pop.
Tv Shows I find painful...Lost, Survivor, anything CSI or Law and Order
I'll probably piss you off.
If any of this makes me less of a homo in your eyes, please move on.
If you want me to do something with you, then use a little imagination and try to find some common ground with me.
If you have any further questions, ask me. I dare you.You're right. I don't know where I got the idea that you came across as high maintenance ( ... )
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