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So yesterday I had a doctor's appt, and Ian came home early so he could watch the baby. He didn't have to, I've just been really stressed out with Mal lately because he's been teething and not a happy camper. Anyway, Ian wanted to help me out cause he's amaaaaaaazing like that. He got home, and I left for the doctor's office. It turns out that the address and office the insurance company gave me was in fact a clinic and the doctor who is on my insurance card just does rotations there. I was a little put off at this, just because I didn't want to be at a clinic since I wanted to have a personal doctor and not just a random one each time.
I asked which doctor I would be seeing to see if it happened to be the doctor who my insurance referred me too and it turns out it was some other doctor. The receptionist couldn't even say his name right, so I didn't even know what his name was.
After waiting nearly an hour, they finally called me in and the nurse asked me questions, weighed me, blah blah blah. I was there to get bc, so there was no need for me to get naked or anything (THANK GOD) so the nurse left me and said the doctor would be in there soon.
The doc came in, and he's this creepy looking guy with an accent that is so thick I can't even tell you what kind of accent it was. I couldn't understand ANYTHING he said, and I had to ask him to repeat himself a lot. He read on my chart that I just had a baby and he keeps telling me I need a pap smear. I just said that I just came in to get birth control and that I didn't want a pap smear. He then asked if I was breastfeeding. Right after he asked, his eyes DELIBERATELY went down from my eyes to my boobs. I felt really creeped out, but if this was all that happened I wouldn't have given it any thought.
He asked me a few more questions and then asks me AGAIN if I'm breastfeeding, and AGAIN he blatently stares at my tits. I responded, and he gets his shit together and stands up to leave. As he's leaving, he places his hand on my lower back, pats it and said, "The nurse will be in with you shortly". As he's saying that, rubs my back and then moves from my back to my thighs in a really fucking creepy way, and then he leaves the room.
Needless to say, I was freaking the fuck out. I texted Ian that I was really uncomfortable and that I felt the doc touched me inappropriately. Ian started freaking the fuck out and told me to get home.
I got home, and I'm crying and just weirded out but mostly relieved that he didn't do anything else. Ian wanted to drive over there and kill the guy, but instead we just called our insurance company and the police. An officer came over last night to hear what I had to say and is now doing a "sexual battery investigation".
blehlhearhaierhuaaagghhhh. I'm so disgusted.
I asked which doctor I would be seeing to see if it happened to be the doctor who my insurance referred me too and it turns out it was some other doctor. The receptionist couldn't even say his name right, so I didn't even know what his name was.
After waiting nearly an hour, they finally called me in and the nurse asked me questions, weighed me, blah blah blah. I was there to get bc, so there was no need for me to get naked or anything (THANK GOD) so the nurse left me and said the doctor would be in there soon.
The doc came in, and he's this creepy looking guy with an accent that is so thick I can't even tell you what kind of accent it was. I couldn't understand ANYTHING he said, and I had to ask him to repeat himself a lot. He read on my chart that I just had a baby and he keeps telling me I need a pap smear. I just said that I just came in to get birth control and that I didn't want a pap smear. He then asked if I was breastfeeding. Right after he asked, his eyes DELIBERATELY went down from my eyes to my boobs. I felt really creeped out, but if this was all that happened I wouldn't have given it any thought.
He asked me a few more questions and then asks me AGAIN if I'm breastfeeding, and AGAIN he blatently stares at my tits. I responded, and he gets his shit together and stands up to leave. As he's leaving, he places his hand on my lower back, pats it and said, "The nurse will be in with you shortly". As he's saying that, rubs my back and then moves from my back to my thighs in a really fucking creepy way, and then he leaves the room.
Needless to say, I was freaking the fuck out. I texted Ian that I was really uncomfortable and that I felt the doc touched me inappropriately. Ian started freaking the fuck out and told me to get home.
I got home, and I'm crying and just weirded out but mostly relieved that he didn't do anything else. Ian wanted to drive over there and kill the guy, but instead we just called our insurance company and the police. An officer came over last night to hear what I had to say and is now doing a "sexual battery investigation".
blehlhearhaierhuaaagghhhh. I'm so disgusted.