is it wrong?
is it wrong to NOT be in a fight with someone? am i disloyal if i dont hate someone because my friends do? where do you draw the line? am i the type of person who does things just because other people wish i would? and if im not that person am i the type of person who doesnt stand up for her friends? when does obligation to others trump my personal beliefs? is it possible to stay true to myself and to others at the same time? shouldnt the people i love give me the same consideration they expect from me? i seem to be upsetting someone no matter what i do, the question is not of loyalty then, the question is of conformity, and personally i refuse. i will not jump off that bridge because you do. i am doing my best to stay out of things, but when someone questions me directly knowing im the only resource for the information, i expect to be able to answer. the thing is... if you would just talk to eachother instead of everyone else... none of this would be happening in the first place. say something, or get over it, but if you arent going to speak up you do not have the grounds to expect things to be different. you can not expect change without first giving someone the opportunity. i was asked a question, i answered in the most honest and diplomatic way i knew how. it wasnt gossip, it wasnt sabotage, it wasnt covert spying, it was someone asking me for my advice on taking care of a sensitive situation, thats all. dont treat me like a spy or a traitor because i want everyone to stop fighting, and dont scream at me for being in the middle, when youre the one who put me there.