Oct 16, 2008 18:28
Welcom back to whatever is going on. Now where do we start, first off, nothing new is goin on really. and all these roomers and gossip about Economy being fucked over, many folks are scared by this and trying to seek solutions by google. well a Birdy swooped by and dropped me a note that only says F.E.M.A. well that sounds retarded its not even a word.... I think.
Well after googling it, theres a website about concentration camps and economy business.
Other than that, its getting difficut retaining a job, College, and local friends. I may appear online but its like out of 203 friends, hardly 3-10 out of them says hi. but thats just me whining for attention, I'm also yiffy and can;t wait for mark to come home for the week, I wannah be fucked by him right nows o///o but enough about that.
Midterm is monday so I'm cracking down on my book and Wrighting, its not goin to be easy especialy about the book named You "Just Don't Understand" by Deborah Tannen. This linguist has made this book for others to try and understand the common language that we often speak, its like a code really. its quite blunt with the advice you find.
For an Example that Deborah Tannen has made was Males seek Rank and independence as Female seek Intimacy and Passion. Seems kinda stupid right? well a common mistake is that well, A lady has went through surgery to remove a fat lump in her boob, that now is left a scar, her two female friends aid her by saying,"that must hurt" and ,"I had went through the same thing, your strong" now as for her boyfriend. "if you get plastic surgery I'll pay for it and should cover that nasty scar up" well... she got pist.
Heres what the guy did wrong, The two ladys related to her current pain to appease her, as for her boyfriend.. well, he gave a solution, not a relation.
If a male was to be in trouble, he seek the solution and get it done, as for the female, they keep it as for a piece of conversation. ((Pretty amazing))
Now as for wemon, they love to get close to whoever they can so they reveal their wounds, their pains and their secrets. to a male, they will not for feeling as if they could back stab or be very vulnerable, makes them think they were to be de-ranked.
men would rely conversation on whatever it may be, chicks, Sports, games, and a little bit about current news. this may sound steriotypical shit, but think about it, from the amont of conversations we have its all been about something.
Heres a great example, middle school, before recess starts, the boys would have a sport game setup and ready as for the female, they sit around and talk, nothing gets done, food turns cold, and whatever. thing of it is that the male would run for the goal than to discuss it....
My book test on midterm is all about that. there is still allot I have not read but it is not easy to read. so I hope this lesson taught you something, its nothing sexist but it helps understand ones oint of view more and careful for what you may say.
other than that I'm signing off.