May 05, 2012 19:02
If you’re with someone who doesn’t care about what you do, or doesn’t at least support the things you do, the things you love to do, leave them.
If you’re with someone who doesn’t at least respect those things, leave them.
You should never be with someone who ever makes you feel even the slightest like the things you do or the things you love/love to do aren’t great.You should and you need to be with someone who supports you, someone who at the very least makes you feel good about the things you do. You need to be with someone who cares these things, even if it’s not necessarily what they love or what they love to do.
And on the same note, pay attention to the things that the person you love does. Things they create, or activities they like to do. No you dumbass you aren’t going to be with someone who loves everything you do, or you’re not going to love everything that someone you are with does, but it’s so important to at least support them. At least let them know that you think they are wonderful and brave for doing these things to begin with. If they are things you cannot tolerate, or things that you cannot support because they are harmful or they bug you, then I’d say it’s very possible you are with the wrong person. And if the person you are with doesn’t seem to care, don’t let that make you feel bad about what you do.
Because?
Stupid!
Because they are the problem, not you.
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