Jul 24, 2007 12:42
Am I a nice person? I always thought it paid to be kind to everyone. Why do I get the feeling that being an angsty distant forlorn mess with daddy issues or a deceitful conniving bitch is the only way to get a guy?
Often I feel like guys don't see me as a potential love interest because I am too happy and kind; I think this stems from many people's feelings of unworthiness-- they subconsciously elect to be with people who will disappoint them and treat them badly because that's what they've come to expect.
I just want to know when it's all going to pay off, that's all.