Brisbane trip
BRISBANE
Went to Brisbane over the weekend. It was perfect weather.
A consistent 27 degrees every single day.
I wore my summer dresses which I love wearing.
Boyfriend paid for my $440 plane ticket (got ripped off!).
We stayed at the Saville hotel. One of the best hotels I’ve ever stayed at. I think it was almost a 5 star hotel.
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To anonymous,
if you enter a relationship with the attitude and thinking (quote from your comment) "this will not work", then surely this will predetermine for the relationship to fail.
"Looks like you are trying to rush things (marriage talk, moving in, working overseas together etc.) to forget past relationships and troubles to prove to yourself this is different. You know this will not work."
I haven't forgotten about past relationships. I've LEARNT from them and have moved on. And this relationship IS DIFFERENT to the previous ones I've had. You're probably thinking how this is different - perhaps assuming that we're just being naive since we're in the honeymood period.
Firstly, this is DIFFERENT because he treats me with the respect that I know should come from partner. He puts me first before himself. He doesn't just say I love you - he shows it. Almost everything that I want in a guy...almost every way he treats me - is exactly how I wanted to be treated as in a relationship.
And in terms of rushing things. That is entirely subjective on the relationship itself. I've learned from many older people, that when they first met their now current husbands/wives, they just "knew" that they were "the one". And that in most instances, they were able to come to this conclusion that they were "the one" only in mere weeks/months in knowing this person.
It's a just a "feeling" - they've described it as. Nothing tangible. Something so intangible that words can't even precisely describe what this beautiful, intangible feeling is.
I have this "feeling" with him. And it's not a feeling that has eventuated because I haven't dealt with baggage from previous relationships and so forth.
It's a feeling that lives within me because he is one of the most amazing human beings, I've ever known. And if you are ever lucky enough to find someone that's as loving as he is, then you'll know why I feel this way and where I'm coming from.
Thanks for your advice anyway.
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