[ VIII | Voice ]

May 27, 2009 03:59

[ LOCKED FROM HARUHI SUZUMIYA ]

I wonder what it is that draws two people together. Maybe it's common interests. Of course, similar goals and values would be needed as well.

I just don't understand.

Maybe it's because I'm naïve and not all that  experienced in love, but how do you know when you've fallen in love with someone? When people like each ( Read more... )

love, voice, i think i like her, ic, i don't understand

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[locked] angelic_lawyer May 27 2009, 08:10:45 UTC
They do say opposites attract. The feelings of love aren't the same for any two people.

It's something you have to work out for yourself, I should imagine.

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[locked] lunchpenalty May 27 2009, 08:18:47 UTC
"Opposites attract" is such an old saying, but I suppose it's lasted so long because it's true. I mean, she and I are the same in some regards, but in others we're different.

I find myself liking her enough to consider a relationship or something, but at the same time I feel as though a relationship with her wouldn't do much besides cause me grief.

I don't know. I feel like all she does is give me a headache, but I can also admit I'd be pretty lonely without her.

Is it normal to feel such radically different opinions about one person?

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[locked] where 'much' is 'any' angelic_lawyer May 27 2009, 08:25:59 UTC
I don't have much experience with relationships. I can't comment on that aspect.

As for what's normal, I wouldn't know. Normality is [...] defined by the society one is in and when it comes to feelings, I'm not sure that one can say that certain feelings are normal or abnormal.

Feelings - emotions - are whimsical. They rarely make sense. You do, however, feel them for a reason. It's just a case of realising what they mean for you. Someone else feeling similar emotions towards a person could be experiencing them for different reasons, for example. Emotions are personal; they're related to personal experiences.

I don't think I'm the right person to talk to with regards to relationships and the feelings associated with them.

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[locked] I think the same applies to Kyon~ lunchpenalty May 27 2009, 08:32:24 UTC
I really do wonder what they mean to me. They weren't the sort of feelings I could ever express to her in our own world. Here, where the circumstances are different, I could tell her and ... deal with what would probably be normal consequences.

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[locked] At least Kyon is a teenager. Kid? Teenager? angelic_lawyer May 27 2009, 08:35:57 UTC
I see.

It sounds complicated.

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[locked] This is true. And he DID kiss Haruhi. |D (Ponytails turn him on?) lunchpenalty May 27 2009, 08:40:42 UTC
More than you can imagine.

I could consider telling her, but if she ever decided to get her chip out.... I would most likely regret it.

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[locked] angelic_lawyer May 27 2009, 08:42:20 UTC
...I see.

I hope, then, that you're able to come to some sort of adequate conclusion regarding your feelings.

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[locked] And by Naruse, he means Tomoo |D lunchpenalty May 27 2009, 08:44:38 UTC
I hope so, too.

Thanks, Naruse.

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[locked] ffffff angelic_lawyer May 27 2009, 08:45:37 UTC
You're quite welcome.

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