Nov 14, 2006 10:05
Especially when your affairs are so enmeshed with those of your ex S.O.'s. See we have a joint account that is filled with my ,oney. His name was on the account so that he could get a secured loan so he could buy his car. That's fine cause he always makes his car payment. However the car is in my name so that i can insure it since he had a DUI and cant get any insurance for a year. While we were together i didn't mind insuring the car since he always gave me the money up front. Now he wants me to insure it again but i dont really want to because if he gets in an accident or anything bad happens, it's my insurance that's fucked for five years. see the dilema? Oh and we're not really broken up, we're on a break for 1 month so if we do get back together I need him to have a car and such.
I'm also very torn about this break. I wake up thinking " this is fine, It's better this way." I get frustrated with him and this insurance thing and i want to make the break permanent. Then he calls and says sweet sincere things and i realize that he is taking this seriously and i remember all the things that make us work so well. I am ambiguous.