W.T.F.
I'm so pissed off about this - I was going to post some "good" things about Aaron's mom's passing (if anything associated with the death of a loved one can be considered good) because Aaron said it really could not have gone any better. She picked her moment, she was surrounded by loved ones, there was so much love in her room it was palpable. But then something happened to overshadow all that.
Aaron's sister, P, came down here with a couple friends on Thursday. She didn't want to be in her house alone and wanted to spend more time with Aaron. P left her friend B in charge of petsitting her dogs. B is P's ex-boyfriend; P broke up with him after he did some stupid stuff and B is still like "I love you P, I want you back" yadda yadda. On Friday at 5:30am, Aaron got this bizarre phone call from B. He was quite annoyed at being woken up so early as it was his last day to sleep in before he had to start working extended hours. And the guy made absolutely no sense. For 7 minutes all he said was "Aaron, I'm sorry" and "I fucked up" over and over again. Aaron kept trying to get him to say what happened but he wouldn't. He mentioned that he would give P money, and that there were going to be cops everywhere. Other than that all he said was he was sorry and he fucked up.
He called P as well, and one of her friends. Like, 27 times. He was obviously fucked up. People tried to call him back but he wasn't answering. Apparently he's on parole for something so if he got in trouble with the law it would have been really bad. P called some friends back home and got one of them to go to the house and check on things. P's car wasn't there, but all three dogs were barking so at least he hadn't killed one or something. We all speculated that he probably crashed her car. Possibly killed someone with it.
P decided to go home Friday evening, assuming that B got arrested or was otherwise too fucked up to look after the dogs properly. So she walks into her house and guess what was waiting for her?
B killed himself. In her bed.
Who the FUCK does he think he is??? The girl just lost her mom a few days ago. Did he feel he had to upstage that or what? If he was suicidal... fine, couldn't he have fucking killed himself in his OWN house or in a ditch somewhere or something?
Aaron's mom asked to go to the hospice because she knew her time was coming. She didn't want to die in P's house and have P dealing with that memory for the rest of her life. And then this selfish asshole goes and does this! AAARRRGGGHHHH.
Thankfully, P is just as pissed off about the whole thing as Aaron is. He was worried she'd be more sad, having been friends with the guy and all. Aaron was actually pretty good friends with him himself, until he started pulling stupid shit and ruined his relationship with P. B came down here and the three of us went to a baseball game, even. He seemed like a nice guy.
But what the fuck - how do you DO something like that? That's the most selfish thing he could have done. And we still don't know what he did with her car. P had to report it stolen. Just another problem to deal with, because she doesn't have enough this week.
She wants to sell that house now, understandably. Unfortunately she'll have major penalties for selling it early.
I can't even imagine coming home to find a dead body in my bed. Ugh.
At least he overdosed - didn't blow his brains out, so it was clean. Still, she's never sleeping in that bed again. Aaron said he's more upset about B ruining her nice bed than him dying. That made me laugh. I really can't blame him though.
I wonder if he called Aaron after he'd taken all the pills, and was regretting it. Still... could he not have dragged his ass outside somewhere? Anywhere but in her fucking bed. Jeez.
Okay, well, that's the jist of it - if I keep writing I'll just be repeating myself saying "What a selfish fucking asshole," etc.
And I'm sick. Blech. I can't afford to be sick next week so my plan is to sleep it off by tomorrow. I've spent more of the weekend asleep than awake, but I'm still achy and feverish and tired. I just got sick in September - that's TWICE in 3 months now... so I can no longer say "I never get sick" because obviously the tides are turning.
Aaron's sister, P, came down here with a couple friends on Thursday. She didn't want to be in her house alone and wanted to spend more time with Aaron. P left her friend B in charge of petsitting her dogs. B is P's ex-boyfriend; P broke up with him after he did some stupid stuff and B is still like "I love you P, I want you back" yadda yadda. On Friday at 5:30am, Aaron got this bizarre phone call from B. He was quite annoyed at being woken up so early as it was his last day to sleep in before he had to start working extended hours. And the guy made absolutely no sense. For 7 minutes all he said was "Aaron, I'm sorry" and "I fucked up" over and over again. Aaron kept trying to get him to say what happened but he wouldn't. He mentioned that he would give P money, and that there were going to be cops everywhere. Other than that all he said was he was sorry and he fucked up.
He called P as well, and one of her friends. Like, 27 times. He was obviously fucked up. People tried to call him back but he wasn't answering. Apparently he's on parole for something so if he got in trouble with the law it would have been really bad. P called some friends back home and got one of them to go to the house and check on things. P's car wasn't there, but all three dogs were barking so at least he hadn't killed one or something. We all speculated that he probably crashed her car. Possibly killed someone with it.
P decided to go home Friday evening, assuming that B got arrested or was otherwise too fucked up to look after the dogs properly. So she walks into her house and guess what was waiting for her?
B killed himself. In her bed.
Who the FUCK does he think he is??? The girl just lost her mom a few days ago. Did he feel he had to upstage that or what? If he was suicidal... fine, couldn't he have fucking killed himself in his OWN house or in a ditch somewhere or something?
Aaron's mom asked to go to the hospice because she knew her time was coming. She didn't want to die in P's house and have P dealing with that memory for the rest of her life. And then this selfish asshole goes and does this! AAARRRGGGHHHH.
Thankfully, P is just as pissed off about the whole thing as Aaron is. He was worried she'd be more sad, having been friends with the guy and all. Aaron was actually pretty good friends with him himself, until he started pulling stupid shit and ruined his relationship with P. B came down here and the three of us went to a baseball game, even. He seemed like a nice guy.
But what the fuck - how do you DO something like that? That's the most selfish thing he could have done. And we still don't know what he did with her car. P had to report it stolen. Just another problem to deal with, because she doesn't have enough this week.
She wants to sell that house now, understandably. Unfortunately she'll have major penalties for selling it early.
I can't even imagine coming home to find a dead body in my bed. Ugh.
At least he overdosed - didn't blow his brains out, so it was clean. Still, she's never sleeping in that bed again. Aaron said he's more upset about B ruining her nice bed than him dying. That made me laugh. I really can't blame him though.
I wonder if he called Aaron after he'd taken all the pills, and was regretting it. Still... could he not have dragged his ass outside somewhere? Anywhere but in her fucking bed. Jeez.
Okay, well, that's the jist of it - if I keep writing I'll just be repeating myself saying "What a selfish fucking asshole," etc.
And I'm sick. Blech. I can't afford to be sick next week so my plan is to sleep it off by tomorrow. I've spent more of the weekend asleep than awake, but I'm still achy and feverish and tired. I just got sick in September - that's TWICE in 3 months now... so I can no longer say "I never get sick" because obviously the tides are turning.