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i eat the same things now. grilledcheeseburger from the JUB. original baked lays. blue powerade. maybe a cookie. that's my daily food intake. oh, and a packet of cheap fruitsnacks.
been listening to oldskool shit. everclear and stonetemplepilots. hee hee.
i dreamt that i logged into my photoisland account and there was a message from fiona apple saying, "oh, i wondered who was using my password! well, i don't mind." ha ha ha... she appeared in my dream cos i wrote all that shit yesterday abt. stokely. stoke was obsessed w/ fiona apple. indigo girls. melissa ferrick. stoke took the whole Angry Dyke Music thing further than zak or i. heh.
also dreamt that i was back in high school, president of the GSA again, and i had a fanclub of younger chicks who were chasing me, and it bothered me. cos in the dream, i had this really pretty girlfriend. so i had to make the younger girls go away. they kept trying to chase off the girlfriend. there was a weird scene in which the girlfriend wanted me to like, pop her jaw back into place or something. umn. awright...?? and it all took place in a lonnnng room with like 5 beds, end to end, and it was all decorated in that old, musty style that old ladies have in their houses. like no one had been in the room since 1974. hmmn.
yar. today will be busy. i have so many things to remember to do, and i'm sure i'll forget. sigh. i have pages of shit to type. not so much reading, for once. but other stuff. gotta finish w/ taxes/FAFSA shit, too. (*scowl*)
Have you ever had intercourse with someone who had a genital piercing? notyet, no
Women: How do you react when your partner loses his erection while having intercourse? heh.
Men:How do you react when you lose your erection while having intercourse?
Have you ever had ‘rug burn’ (on your back or butt) from a sexual encounter on the floor? yeh... and various other injuries from sex outdoors... concrete, sticks-in-back... etc....
Do you ever take ideas from pornography and try them out in your sex life? actually, i've always avoided porn... no idea why, though, heh...
Does the idea of having sex with a virgin turn you on? not sexually, no. but on the other hand, i've only had sex w/ virgins in the past, and so i'm really insecure abt. having sex w/ more experienced people... so it's kind of a security thing, yeh? "ooh, she won't know just how bad i am in bed, ha ha ha!"
Have you ever gone from anal to vaginal penetration without washing the penetrating object (penis, finger, dildo, vibrator etc.) ? ewwwww!! that's how you get diseases!
Does it turn you on to have your anal region stimulated? no
How do you feel about stimulating/penetrating your partner's anus with a finger? (*eyes*)
Have you ever engaged in anal sex? almost, unfortunately. ewww.
Does the taste of your partner's ejaculate or secretions change? it can...
Women: Do you caress your partner's testicles while performing oral sex? uh. no.
Men:Do you like it when a partner caresses your testicles during oral sex?
Have you ever sucked on a mint before giving oral sex to increase the sensation for your partner? ha ha... does that actually work?
Would you like your partner to start performing oral sex on you while you slept? that's kinda weird.
Do you like the taste of semen/vaginal excretions (assuming that your partner's genitals are sparkling clean)? girls, yeh
How confident are you with your oral sex skills? not as confident as i should be. i've been told that i have "an amazing tongue" and such... so... but... (*shrug*) dunno.
When your partner is performing oral sex on you, how do you feel about kissing him/her on the lips? fine. it's not gross.
When your partner is performing oral sex on you, how much eye contact do you like? i usually have mine closed.
Which 'ejaculate management strategy' to you prefer? heh. lesbianism.
Would you perform oral sex on your partner after vaginal penetration? this is a weird sex survey.
How old were you when you first engaged in oral sex? 12...
Do you swallow your partner's ejaculate/vaginal excretions? sometimes
In your view, which has more significance, oral sex or intercourse with penetration? well... w/ girls... oral.
Do you enjoy giving cunnilingus/fellatio (oral sex)? i don't do blowjobs, ha ha. but girls.... fuck, yes.
How does the smell of your partner's genitals affect your desire to give oral sex? uh, bad smell = no.
Do you enjoy receiving oral? hell yeh
Do you enjoy giving oral? hell yeh
Which sense, with the exception of touch, plays the largest role in your pleasure during sex? ummmn... good question. i dunno. hearing...?
How do you feel about naughty, dirty talk during sex? that depends. cheesy-naughty is bullshit. it's really not my thing.
Do you find it sexy to have your toes sucked on or to suck on your partner's toes? not particularly, but it can depend
Women:How do you feel about hairy chests? ha ha ha ha...
Men:How do you feel about a woman who doesn't shave her armpits/legs? (*shakes head*)
What body type turns you on most? not scrawny... i dunno. nothing specific... but i can be particular. i like it when i see it, basically.
Have you ever had sex without kissing the other person on the lips? yeh... i sure as hell don't want to kiss a boy i'm just fucking. boykisses trip me out, anyway. (*shudder*)
Do you like watching the penis enter the vagina? heh.
How do you feel about spanking during sex? uh. not my thing.
Do you like being bitten during sex? YES
Other than your genitals, what is the most sensitive erogenous zone on your body? really, everywhere, ha ha... i'm reeeeally sensitive. if i'm already turned on, then anywhere you touch me... yeh. i dunno... neck, ears, sides, thighs, upperarms... anywhere.
What kind of music gets you most in the mood for sex? (*shrugs*) that depends.
Would you like to have erotic pictures of your partner? sure
What is your favorite way for your partner to verbally express his/her pleasure during sex? i don't know... that depends on the person.
When you are aroused, do you like to have your nipples stimulated? yup
Would you be turned on if your partner had his/her genitals pierced? i might. i dunno. haven't experienced that.
How do you feel about having sex in a public place? fun! i'm such an exhibitionist.
Have you ever cracked up laughing during or just after an orgasm? many a time, hee hee. i'm all ADHD and i think of random weird shit in the middle of sex. it gets annoying, though. sigh.
Have you ever reached orgasm without actually being touched/touching yourself? almost
Did you have an orgasm the first time you had sexual intercourse? not w/ a boy, no. never. the firstime w/ a girl, yes.
Do you like your partner to watch your face while you reach orgasm? not really. unless she likes it. i mean, if she's just randomly watching, that's weird. and i'll feel all weirded out and shit.
Who in your couple usually reaches orgasm first? that totally depends. usually me, cos i'm usually able to reach orgasm fairly quickly, but sometimes not.
In which sexual position do you most easily reach orgasm? ...?
During a sexual intercourse, how much time does it usually take you to reach orgasm? thatc an depend. sometimes not long enough, yet sometimes too long.
Have you ever had a condom break? once.
Do you worry about getting pregnant each time you have sex? no. the time w/ dan, that was four years after i'd last had boysex, and i swear to god, i'd totally forgotten that that's a possibility, ha ha! but when i was younger, yeh. i freaked out abt. it a lot.
How would you react if your partner confessed that he or she was bisexual? ha ha ha ha ha.......
How long could you go without having sex with your partner before you start feeling that there is a major problem in your relationship? well, w/ me, it's usually been more like "how long can you go on just having sex (and no love) before realising that there's something wrong in the relationship?" ha ha ha.
Would it bother you if your partner had sexual fantasies about another wo/man? if she told me, yes. i tend toward jealousy. i mean, it's natural to fantasize abt. others. but it'd bother me, still.
Women: Does the size of your partner's penis matter to you? uh.
Men: Are you happy with the size and shape of your penis?
With how many partners have you had unprotected sexual intercourse (no condom)? ...
For the most part, what type of contraception do you use in your couple? lesbianism!
Does using a condom during sexual intercourse detract from your pleasurable sensations?
When did you discuss the subject of contraception/protection with your current (last) partner?
Have you ever had a sexual fantasy in which you were raping/being raped by someone? kind of. i think i still have some really fuckedup views on being fucked forcefully. cos of all that shit when i was younger. (*blinks*)
Would you have sex (using a condom) with a reasonably attractive stranger for one million dollars tomorrow evening? hmmn...
What is your favorite sexual fantasy? i really don't have any... well... wait. nothing really interesting.
Have you ever fantasized about another person while you were making love to your mate? ...yes
How do you feel about using vibrators during intercourse? (*nod*)
Have you ever gotten caught in the middle of a masturbating session? surprisingly, no!
When you masturbate, who do you most often fantasize about? i really have two answers to this. one would surprise the hell out of most of you. the other wouldn't in the least.
How old were you when you first started masturbating? ten
Have you ever masturbated while your partner was watching? yeh
Would it bother you to learn that your partner masturbated while looking at porn? hell no
Would it turn you on to watch your partner masturbate? that depends.
Have you ever tried the spoon position? uh
Do you answer the phone when you're in the middle of a steamy session? i have
What's the longest you've ever gone without having sex since you became sexually active? (*thinks*) i think that there were several months after ruth dumped me where i didn't have sex. maybe seven months? when i was 16. other than that, it's been pretty regular, i guess, w/ three or less months between. sometimes four. sometimes one.
Do you and your partner use lubrication when giving/getting a hand job? uh
Have you ever had or given a discreet hand job in public? yep
What is the greatest number of times that you have had sexual intercourse in the same day? (*thinks*) i honestly can't remember. more than twice?
During foreplay, leading up to sex, who usually takes your clothes off? the first few times w/ someone, usually i'll wait for that other person to initiate it. cos i'm always so "gee, what if she doesn't want it??" but after that whole "comfort" thing is breached, then it's whoever gets the clothes off first. (*shrug*)
What do you typically do after having sex? stupid jessish stuff. like usual.
Who has the greater sex drive in your couple? more often than not, it's been me. but that's been known to change. ruth, for instance. ha ha!
When you have sex, how many times do you usually do it? that depends.
Do you talk (other than making inarticulate noises) while having sex? sometimes. that depends.
In how many different sexual positions do you find yourself during your typical intercourse? (*shrug*)
What is your favorite sexual position? ...
How do you feel about the person you lost your virginity to? i usually forget tha he ever existed. and when i remember that he does, i hate him. violently. heh. i stabbed him in the stomach w/ an x-acto knife once.
Do you think prostitution should be legal? it's been a long time since i thought abt. it.
Would you most likely have oral sex or intercourse first in a new relationship? uh
Women:How many times do you think men get an erection during a typical day (other than erections when they are sleeping)? (*raises eyebrow*)
Men:How many times do you get an erection during a typical day (other than erections when you are sleeping)?
Have you ever pulled your partner's hair during lovemaking?
Would you say your current partner is (or, for men, you are) well-endowed?
Have you ever kissed a member of the same sex? uh. gee.
Have you ever kept a memento of a sexual encounter (panties, shirt, boxers, dark blue dress)? ha ha ha... that amuses me.
When you lost your virginity, who was the first person you told? my then-bestfriend, lacee.
At what age do you think sexuality education (in schools) should begin? hmmn. i never had sex-ed.
BASICS
1. what's ur first name?: jess
2. male or female?: chick
3. how old r u?: nineteen.
4. what country or state do u live in?: tennessee. unfortunately.
5. would u say ur straight, gay or bi?: gay.
UR BODY
6. describe what u look like physically: short. averagesized/shaped. dykey. orange hair. chest the size of nicaragua.
7. ok now guys, how big is it honestly? and girls, how many fingers can u fit?: heh. uh. try and see how many. wait... nevermind,
8. and if u haven't told us already girls, what size r ur tits, and guys, r u cut or uncut?: this survey amuses me. it changes from time to time. 36DD/40D.
9. and how big r ur nipples, and r they pink or brown?: pink. i have no areolas. well, almost. ha ha ha!
10. what's ur fav part of ur body?: i like my hipbones?
11. what's ur fav body part on the other sex?: boys feel weird. (*frown*)
12. what's ur fav place on ur body 2 be kissed?: throat. collarbone-area. jawline/behind my ears.
13. do u have any special names 4 ur privates or what do u call them?: not really, ha ha.
14. do u shave ur pubic hair, trim, wax, have a racing strip, leave it natural or what?: it's currently cleanshaven.
GETTING PERSONAL NOW
15. do u masturbate (don't lie now)?: occasionally. i hate it.
16. how often do u masturbate?: every few weeks.
17. how many ppl have u slept with?: slept? or sex? 10-12. (*scowl*)
18. how old were u when u lost ur virginity?: twelve.
19. who did u lose it 2?: a boy who made me cry.
20. do u regret ur first time?: YES.
21. do u have any other sexual regrets?: just the boys when i was young...
22. have u ever had sex with a virgin?: yup. seven.
23. what's the biggest age difference between u and someone u've had sex with?: one guy was three years older, i think? and one girl was 1.5 years younger.
24. how often would u have sex in an ideal relationship?: that depends on a lot of factors. if i were very comfortable w/ her, several times a week.
25. and when was the last time u actually did have sex?: uh. couple of months ago?
26. when was the last time u had an orgasm?: i have no idea. two weeks ago? or... not.
27. have u ever had a 1 night stand?: yup
28. what sort of contraception do u normally use?: lesbianism.
29. have u ever had phone sex?: yeh. not my deal.
30. have u ever had cyber sex?: kinda. ha ha ha. hate that shit.
31. have u ever devoted a whole day 2 sex?: never had the luxury...
32. lights on or off?: either. off is nicer.
33. do u prefer 2 give or receive oral sex?: depends on the person. and i don't do blowjobs.
34. do u prefer oral sex or normal sex?: umn.
35. do u prefer giving/receiving blowjobs or handjobs?: ew. penises. ew.
36. do u prefer eating/being eaten or fingering/being fingered?: yes. to all. heh.
37. girls, have u ever used ur tits 2 get a guy off, or guys, have u ever had a girl use her tits 2 get u off?: uh, no
38. what's ur fav position?: (*shrug*)
39. what's the most number of positions u've used in 1 sex session?: dunno.
40. do u like sex best rough, gentle, fast, slow, or how?: all of the above. rough, w/ the right mix of gentleness.
41. do u get turned on by pain?: definitely.
42. have u ever tried anal sex and if so did u like it?: no.
43. how do u feel about sex when u or ur partner is on her period?: no.
ORGASMS AND CUM
44. girls, have u ever or do u ever fake orgasms?: most of the time, actually... sigh.
45. what's the most number of orgasms u have had together, or in one sex session?: four, i think?
46. can u cum from just having sex?: sometimes.
47. what sort of orgasm do u normally have (do u moan, pant, gasp, scream or what)?: i'm loud...
48. spit or swallow?: that depends.
49. girls, do u like the taste of cum, or guys, do u like the taste of pussy?: uh. i like pussy, yes.
50. have u ever tasted ur own love juices (lol)?: heh. yeh.
51. what did u think of the taste?: (*shrug*)
52. what's the kinkiest thing u've ever done with cum?: uh. i should not say. (*smirk*)
MOSTLY HAVE U EVERS
53. have u or do u ever look at porno magazines?: just a little. rarely. i'm boring.
54. have u or do u ever watch porno videos?: a little, once, heh
55. have u ever watched a live stripper?: kinda, ha ha ha haha... notreally
56. have u ever watched a live sex show?: nah
57. have u ever used toys during sex?: yeh
58. have u ever used sex toys on ur own?: i don't have any!
59. have u ever used another object that wasn't really a toy during sex?: yep.
60. have u ever used another object that wasn't really a toy on ur own?: yeh
61. how do u feel about talking during sex?: well, i talk all the time as it is, so. heh. i'm bad about laughing in the middle of sex. cos i'm all ADD and i think abt. weird things. and i say "that's my favourite song!" half the time, ha ha ha. (*shakes head*)
62. r u usually loud during sex?: almost always
63. have u ever woken up somebody else in the same house when ur having sex?: i'm not sure... i think we woke stokely's mom up...
64. have u ever had complaints from the neighbours about ur noise during sex?: no
65. have u ever been given open praise 4 ur sexual technique?: honestly, many many times. (*smirk*)
66. have u or do u ever think about other ppl when ur having sex?: yes.
67. have u ever called out someone else's name during sex?: yes...
68. have u ever had sex in a car?: yep
69. if yes, was the car moving?: one was, heh.
70. have u ever had sex in the water (pool, ocean, etc.)?: not yet.
71. have u ever had sex in the shower?: yeh
72. what's the strangest place u ever had sex?: sooo many. places outside, mostly. riverfront park. fort nashboro. harpeth hall athletic field, ha ha!
73. have u ever had sex at work or school?: yup.
74. do u ever roleplay in the bedroom (i don't mean online lol)?: i have.
LOTS OF HAVE U EVERS…LOL
75. have u ever used food 4 sexual purposes? yeh
76. have u ever had a 3some or any sort of group sex? no... .
77. have u ever had sex with more than 1 person during a 24-hour period but not at the same time? yes
78. have u ever had sex with other ppl in the room? yes
79. have u ever been caught masturbating? not that i know of
80. have u ever caught anyone else masturbating? yeh
81. have u ever been caught having sex? almost!!
82. have u ever caught anyone else having sex? yes. my parents, when i was little. eep. but i didn't have my glasses on. ha ha ha ha ha.......... ew.
83. have u ever watched anyone masturbate (whether they knew or not)? yeh
84. have u ever let anyone watch u masturbate? yeh
85. have u ever watched anyone have sex (whether they knew or not)? no
86. has anyone ever watched u having sex? yes. there was some weird shit when i was thirteen... those boys were weird. but hey, i'm shameless...
87. have u ever watched urself? no
88. have u ever kissed anyone of the same sex? yeh.
89. have u ever had a sexual experience with someone of the same sex? yes
90. have u ever had sex with 2 ppl in the same family? uh... yeh. brothers. and their cousin. ha ha ha.... oh my.
91. have u ever had sex with someone related 2 u? no
92. have u ever had sex with an animal? no
93. have u ever had pains as a result of sexual acts? yeh. many a time. heh.
94. have u ever fallen asleep during sex? no, but i've been damned bored...
95. have u ever answered the phone while u were having sex and kept going? ha ha ha... yes
96. have u ever broken anything having sex? hmmn......
AND FINALLY
97. describe ur worst sexual experience: (*glares for five minutes*) ...i had to stab him in the stomach. the end.
98. describe ur best sexual experience: (*shakes head*) i have to save that.
99. describe ur biggest fantasy: nah. saving that, too.
100. and finally, what's the kinkiest thing u've ever done? ...?
SEX
Are you male or female?: female.
What is your sexual preference?: mostly dyke.
How many partners have you had?: more than i ever remember off the top of my head. 10-12... i feel dirty. sigh.
What turns you on?: being touched. i'm highly sensetive.
What turns you off?: penises. excessive body hair. weird things.
What are the most interesting places you've had sex?: library bathrooms, Fort Nashboro/Riverfront Park, various public places...
What is your favorite position?: (*shrug*)
What is something you've sexually experimented with and found that you didn't like it?: hmmn...
What is something sexual you've never done, but want to?: (*shrug*)
How old were you when you had your first orgasm?: i think eleven.
How often do you masturbate?: once every two weeks, maybe?
Do you own any sex toys?: alas, no. someone buy for me!
What is your favorite kind of porn?: i'm not sure. haven't seen enough yet.
Who is your favorite porn star?: uh. dunno.
Name three celebrities you want to have sex with (if you're bisexual you can use three of each): ha ha ha... bisexuals get more answers? no fair. i don't feelike answering this.
Have you ever had sex with two or more people in a 24-hour period, excluding three-or-moresomes?: yes
Have you ever had a threesome or an orgy (four or more people)?: not yet.
Name five songs that you think are great sex music: ummmn...
Do you regret the circumstances during which you lost your virginity?: YES. i've lied to myself/others abt. the exact circumstances for years. but it was bad.
Do you regret any other sexual experiences?: not really.
HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIMENTED WITH...
S&M?: not a lot. some minor violent stuff, yay
Roleplaying?: a bit
Golden or brown showers?:ewww. no.
Mutual masturbation?: i always thought it seemed boring.
Homosexuality?: uh, yeh.
Using food during sex?: yeh. not fun.
Exhibitionism?: hell yes!
Voyeurism?: yeh
1.Have you ever been in love?: yes.
2.How do you know it's love?: ha ha ha... i analyse it incessantly.
3.What makes you fall in love?: fate.
4.What if your girlfriend/boyfriend is a bad kisser?: i usually don't mind too much. but i tried to teach her.
5.What turns you on (at 1st sight)?: hmmn...
6.Are you the jealous type?: if i have reason to be. if i don't totally trust her. i can be jealous or not. it depends.
7.Body or brains?: brains. but i won't go near someone unless i think she's attractive.
8.Do looks matter?: to a certain extent. i have to think she's attractive, and my perception of that is not the standard perception. so. but they don't matter a lot to me, no. not asmuch as personality.
9.What turns you off?: things.
10.The perfect date?: involves good conversation.
11.What do you have that will make a person fall for u?: i wish i knew. my personality, i suppose.
12.Do you still believe in courtship?: a bit.
13.Flowers or chocolates?: i have no preference.
14.Kiss on the first date?: i prefer not to.
15.Sex on the first date?: no.
16.What would you do if you find out that your girlfriend/ boyfriend is cheating on you?: totally depends on the situation. it'd fuck me up a lot.
17.Have you ever cheated on someone?: yes.
18.Fling or long term relationship?: that's apples and oranges, in my mind. i don't know what i want or what i need right now. for a while. overall, i prefer longterm. i can't do flings if i'm emotionally involved. and i am. always.
19.What do you think of holding hands in public?: cute
20.What do you think of kissing in public?: i'm incredibly publicly affectionate. if she's comfortable w/ it, then hell yes.
21.What if your girlfriend/boyfriend is a smoker?: i'm allergic. please don't kill me.
22.Ever fell in love with a friend of the same sex?: yes. quite literally.
23. What would a girl/guy have to do to win your heart?: intelligence. sense of humour. things that make me smile. and so on.
been listening to oldskool shit. everclear and stonetemplepilots. hee hee.
i dreamt that i logged into my photoisland account and there was a message from fiona apple saying, "oh, i wondered who was using my password! well, i don't mind." ha ha ha... she appeared in my dream cos i wrote all that shit yesterday abt. stokely. stoke was obsessed w/ fiona apple. indigo girls. melissa ferrick. stoke took the whole Angry Dyke Music thing further than zak or i. heh.
also dreamt that i was back in high school, president of the GSA again, and i had a fanclub of younger chicks who were chasing me, and it bothered me. cos in the dream, i had this really pretty girlfriend. so i had to make the younger girls go away. they kept trying to chase off the girlfriend. there was a weird scene in which the girlfriend wanted me to like, pop her jaw back into place or something. umn. awright...?? and it all took place in a lonnnng room with like 5 beds, end to end, and it was all decorated in that old, musty style that old ladies have in their houses. like no one had been in the room since 1974. hmmn.
yar. today will be busy. i have so many things to remember to do, and i'm sure i'll forget. sigh. i have pages of shit to type. not so much reading, for once. but other stuff. gotta finish w/ taxes/FAFSA shit, too. (*scowl*)
Have you ever had intercourse with someone who had a genital piercing? notyet, no
Women: How do you react when your partner loses his erection while having intercourse? heh.
Men:How do you react when you lose your erection while having intercourse?
Have you ever had ‘rug burn’ (on your back or butt) from a sexual encounter on the floor? yeh... and various other injuries from sex outdoors... concrete, sticks-in-back... etc....
Do you ever take ideas from pornography and try them out in your sex life? actually, i've always avoided porn... no idea why, though, heh...
Does the idea of having sex with a virgin turn you on? not sexually, no. but on the other hand, i've only had sex w/ virgins in the past, and so i'm really insecure abt. having sex w/ more experienced people... so it's kind of a security thing, yeh? "ooh, she won't know just how bad i am in bed, ha ha ha!"
Have you ever gone from anal to vaginal penetration without washing the penetrating object (penis, finger, dildo, vibrator etc.) ? ewwwww!! that's how you get diseases!
Does it turn you on to have your anal region stimulated? no
How do you feel about stimulating/penetrating your partner's anus with a finger? (*eyes*)
Have you ever engaged in anal sex? almost, unfortunately. ewww.
Does the taste of your partner's ejaculate or secretions change? it can...
Women: Do you caress your partner's testicles while performing oral sex? uh. no.
Men:Do you like it when a partner caresses your testicles during oral sex?
Have you ever sucked on a mint before giving oral sex to increase the sensation for your partner? ha ha... does that actually work?
Would you like your partner to start performing oral sex on you while you slept? that's kinda weird.
Do you like the taste of semen/vaginal excretions (assuming that your partner's genitals are sparkling clean)? girls, yeh
How confident are you with your oral sex skills? not as confident as i should be. i've been told that i have "an amazing tongue" and such... so... but... (*shrug*) dunno.
When your partner is performing oral sex on you, how do you feel about kissing him/her on the lips? fine. it's not gross.
When your partner is performing oral sex on you, how much eye contact do you like? i usually have mine closed.
Which 'ejaculate management strategy' to you prefer? heh. lesbianism.
Would you perform oral sex on your partner after vaginal penetration? this is a weird sex survey.
How old were you when you first engaged in oral sex? 12...
Do you swallow your partner's ejaculate/vaginal excretions? sometimes
In your view, which has more significance, oral sex or intercourse with penetration? well... w/ girls... oral.
Do you enjoy giving cunnilingus/fellatio (oral sex)? i don't do blowjobs, ha ha. but girls.... fuck, yes.
How does the smell of your partner's genitals affect your desire to give oral sex? uh, bad smell = no.
Do you enjoy receiving oral? hell yeh
Do you enjoy giving oral? hell yeh
Which sense, with the exception of touch, plays the largest role in your pleasure during sex? ummmn... good question. i dunno. hearing...?
How do you feel about naughty, dirty talk during sex? that depends. cheesy-naughty is bullshit. it's really not my thing.
Do you find it sexy to have your toes sucked on or to suck on your partner's toes? not particularly, but it can depend
Women:How do you feel about hairy chests? ha ha ha ha...
Men:How do you feel about a woman who doesn't shave her armpits/legs? (*shakes head*)
What body type turns you on most? not scrawny... i dunno. nothing specific... but i can be particular. i like it when i see it, basically.
Have you ever had sex without kissing the other person on the lips? yeh... i sure as hell don't want to kiss a boy i'm just fucking. boykisses trip me out, anyway. (*shudder*)
Do you like watching the penis enter the vagina? heh.
How do you feel about spanking during sex? uh. not my thing.
Do you like being bitten during sex? YES
Other than your genitals, what is the most sensitive erogenous zone on your body? really, everywhere, ha ha... i'm reeeeally sensitive. if i'm already turned on, then anywhere you touch me... yeh. i dunno... neck, ears, sides, thighs, upperarms... anywhere.
What kind of music gets you most in the mood for sex? (*shrugs*) that depends.
Would you like to have erotic pictures of your partner? sure
What is your favorite way for your partner to verbally express his/her pleasure during sex? i don't know... that depends on the person.
When you are aroused, do you like to have your nipples stimulated? yup
Would you be turned on if your partner had his/her genitals pierced? i might. i dunno. haven't experienced that.
How do you feel about having sex in a public place? fun! i'm such an exhibitionist.
Have you ever cracked up laughing during or just after an orgasm? many a time, hee hee. i'm all ADHD and i think of random weird shit in the middle of sex. it gets annoying, though. sigh.
Have you ever reached orgasm without actually being touched/touching yourself? almost
Did you have an orgasm the first time you had sexual intercourse? not w/ a boy, no. never. the firstime w/ a girl, yes.
Do you like your partner to watch your face while you reach orgasm? not really. unless she likes it. i mean, if she's just randomly watching, that's weird. and i'll feel all weirded out and shit.
Who in your couple usually reaches orgasm first? that totally depends. usually me, cos i'm usually able to reach orgasm fairly quickly, but sometimes not.
In which sexual position do you most easily reach orgasm? ...?
During a sexual intercourse, how much time does it usually take you to reach orgasm? thatc an depend. sometimes not long enough, yet sometimes too long.
Have you ever had a condom break? once.
Do you worry about getting pregnant each time you have sex? no. the time w/ dan, that was four years after i'd last had boysex, and i swear to god, i'd totally forgotten that that's a possibility, ha ha! but when i was younger, yeh. i freaked out abt. it a lot.
How would you react if your partner confessed that he or she was bisexual? ha ha ha ha ha.......
How long could you go without having sex with your partner before you start feeling that there is a major problem in your relationship? well, w/ me, it's usually been more like "how long can you go on just having sex (and no love) before realising that there's something wrong in the relationship?" ha ha ha.
Would it bother you if your partner had sexual fantasies about another wo/man? if she told me, yes. i tend toward jealousy. i mean, it's natural to fantasize abt. others. but it'd bother me, still.
Women: Does the size of your partner's penis matter to you? uh.
Men: Are you happy with the size and shape of your penis?
With how many partners have you had unprotected sexual intercourse (no condom)? ...
For the most part, what type of contraception do you use in your couple? lesbianism!
Does using a condom during sexual intercourse detract from your pleasurable sensations?
When did you discuss the subject of contraception/protection with your current (last) partner?
Have you ever had a sexual fantasy in which you were raping/being raped by someone? kind of. i think i still have some really fuckedup views on being fucked forcefully. cos of all that shit when i was younger. (*blinks*)
Would you have sex (using a condom) with a reasonably attractive stranger for one million dollars tomorrow evening? hmmn...
What is your favorite sexual fantasy? i really don't have any... well... wait. nothing really interesting.
Have you ever fantasized about another person while you were making love to your mate? ...yes
How do you feel about using vibrators during intercourse? (*nod*)
Have you ever gotten caught in the middle of a masturbating session? surprisingly, no!
When you masturbate, who do you most often fantasize about? i really have two answers to this. one would surprise the hell out of most of you. the other wouldn't in the least.
How old were you when you first started masturbating? ten
Have you ever masturbated while your partner was watching? yeh
Would it bother you to learn that your partner masturbated while looking at porn? hell no
Would it turn you on to watch your partner masturbate? that depends.
Have you ever tried the spoon position? uh
Do you answer the phone when you're in the middle of a steamy session? i have
What's the longest you've ever gone without having sex since you became sexually active? (*thinks*) i think that there were several months after ruth dumped me where i didn't have sex. maybe seven months? when i was 16. other than that, it's been pretty regular, i guess, w/ three or less months between. sometimes four. sometimes one.
Do you and your partner use lubrication when giving/getting a hand job? uh
Have you ever had or given a discreet hand job in public? yep
What is the greatest number of times that you have had sexual intercourse in the same day? (*thinks*) i honestly can't remember. more than twice?
During foreplay, leading up to sex, who usually takes your clothes off? the first few times w/ someone, usually i'll wait for that other person to initiate it. cos i'm always so "gee, what if she doesn't want it??" but after that whole "comfort" thing is breached, then it's whoever gets the clothes off first. (*shrug*)
What do you typically do after having sex? stupid jessish stuff. like usual.
Who has the greater sex drive in your couple? more often than not, it's been me. but that's been known to change. ruth, for instance. ha ha!
When you have sex, how many times do you usually do it? that depends.
Do you talk (other than making inarticulate noises) while having sex? sometimes. that depends.
In how many different sexual positions do you find yourself during your typical intercourse? (*shrug*)
What is your favorite sexual position? ...
How do you feel about the person you lost your virginity to? i usually forget tha he ever existed. and when i remember that he does, i hate him. violently. heh. i stabbed him in the stomach w/ an x-acto knife once.
Do you think prostitution should be legal? it's been a long time since i thought abt. it.
Would you most likely have oral sex or intercourse first in a new relationship? uh
Women:How many times do you think men get an erection during a typical day (other than erections when they are sleeping)? (*raises eyebrow*)
Men:How many times do you get an erection during a typical day (other than erections when you are sleeping)?
Have you ever pulled your partner's hair during lovemaking?
Would you say your current partner is (or, for men, you are) well-endowed?
Have you ever kissed a member of the same sex? uh. gee.
Have you ever kept a memento of a sexual encounter (panties, shirt, boxers, dark blue dress)? ha ha ha... that amuses me.
When you lost your virginity, who was the first person you told? my then-bestfriend, lacee.
At what age do you think sexuality education (in schools) should begin? hmmn. i never had sex-ed.
BASICS
1. what's ur first name?: jess
2. male or female?: chick
3. how old r u?: nineteen.
4. what country or state do u live in?: tennessee. unfortunately.
5. would u say ur straight, gay or bi?: gay.
UR BODY
6. describe what u look like physically: short. averagesized/shaped. dykey. orange hair. chest the size of nicaragua.
7. ok now guys, how big is it honestly? and girls, how many fingers can u fit?: heh. uh. try and see how many. wait... nevermind,
8. and if u haven't told us already girls, what size r ur tits, and guys, r u cut or uncut?: this survey amuses me. it changes from time to time. 36DD/40D.
9. and how big r ur nipples, and r they pink or brown?: pink. i have no areolas. well, almost. ha ha ha!
10. what's ur fav part of ur body?: i like my hipbones?
11. what's ur fav body part on the other sex?: boys feel weird. (*frown*)
12. what's ur fav place on ur body 2 be kissed?: throat. collarbone-area. jawline/behind my ears.
13. do u have any special names 4 ur privates or what do u call them?: not really, ha ha.
14. do u shave ur pubic hair, trim, wax, have a racing strip, leave it natural or what?: it's currently cleanshaven.
GETTING PERSONAL NOW
15. do u masturbate (don't lie now)?: occasionally. i hate it.
16. how often do u masturbate?: every few weeks.
17. how many ppl have u slept with?: slept? or sex? 10-12. (*scowl*)
18. how old were u when u lost ur virginity?: twelve.
19. who did u lose it 2?: a boy who made me cry.
20. do u regret ur first time?: YES.
21. do u have any other sexual regrets?: just the boys when i was young...
22. have u ever had sex with a virgin?: yup. seven.
23. what's the biggest age difference between u and someone u've had sex with?: one guy was three years older, i think? and one girl was 1.5 years younger.
24. how often would u have sex in an ideal relationship?: that depends on a lot of factors. if i were very comfortable w/ her, several times a week.
25. and when was the last time u actually did have sex?: uh. couple of months ago?
26. when was the last time u had an orgasm?: i have no idea. two weeks ago? or... not.
27. have u ever had a 1 night stand?: yup
28. what sort of contraception do u normally use?: lesbianism.
29. have u ever had phone sex?: yeh. not my deal.
30. have u ever had cyber sex?: kinda. ha ha ha. hate that shit.
31. have u ever devoted a whole day 2 sex?: never had the luxury...
32. lights on or off?: either. off is nicer.
33. do u prefer 2 give or receive oral sex?: depends on the person. and i don't do blowjobs.
34. do u prefer oral sex or normal sex?: umn.
35. do u prefer giving/receiving blowjobs or handjobs?: ew. penises. ew.
36. do u prefer eating/being eaten or fingering/being fingered?: yes. to all. heh.
37. girls, have u ever used ur tits 2 get a guy off, or guys, have u ever had a girl use her tits 2 get u off?: uh, no
38. what's ur fav position?: (*shrug*)
39. what's the most number of positions u've used in 1 sex session?: dunno.
40. do u like sex best rough, gentle, fast, slow, or how?: all of the above. rough, w/ the right mix of gentleness.
41. do u get turned on by pain?: definitely.
42. have u ever tried anal sex and if so did u like it?: no.
43. how do u feel about sex when u or ur partner is on her period?: no.
ORGASMS AND CUM
44. girls, have u ever or do u ever fake orgasms?: most of the time, actually... sigh.
45. what's the most number of orgasms u have had together, or in one sex session?: four, i think?
46. can u cum from just having sex?: sometimes.
47. what sort of orgasm do u normally have (do u moan, pant, gasp, scream or what)?: i'm loud...
48. spit or swallow?: that depends.
49. girls, do u like the taste of cum, or guys, do u like the taste of pussy?: uh. i like pussy, yes.
50. have u ever tasted ur own love juices (lol)?: heh. yeh.
51. what did u think of the taste?: (*shrug*)
52. what's the kinkiest thing u've ever done with cum?: uh. i should not say. (*smirk*)
MOSTLY HAVE U EVERS
53. have u or do u ever look at porno magazines?: just a little. rarely. i'm boring.
54. have u or do u ever watch porno videos?: a little, once, heh
55. have u ever watched a live stripper?: kinda, ha ha ha haha... notreally
56. have u ever watched a live sex show?: nah
57. have u ever used toys during sex?: yeh
58. have u ever used sex toys on ur own?: i don't have any!
59. have u ever used another object that wasn't really a toy during sex?: yep.
60. have u ever used another object that wasn't really a toy on ur own?: yeh
61. how do u feel about talking during sex?: well, i talk all the time as it is, so. heh. i'm bad about laughing in the middle of sex. cos i'm all ADD and i think abt. weird things. and i say "that's my favourite song!" half the time, ha ha ha. (*shakes head*)
62. r u usually loud during sex?: almost always
63. have u ever woken up somebody else in the same house when ur having sex?: i'm not sure... i think we woke stokely's mom up...
64. have u ever had complaints from the neighbours about ur noise during sex?: no
65. have u ever been given open praise 4 ur sexual technique?: honestly, many many times. (*smirk*)
66. have u or do u ever think about other ppl when ur having sex?: yes.
67. have u ever called out someone else's name during sex?: yes...
68. have u ever had sex in a car?: yep
69. if yes, was the car moving?: one was, heh.
70. have u ever had sex in the water (pool, ocean, etc.)?: not yet.
71. have u ever had sex in the shower?: yeh
72. what's the strangest place u ever had sex?: sooo many. places outside, mostly. riverfront park. fort nashboro. harpeth hall athletic field, ha ha!
73. have u ever had sex at work or school?: yup.
74. do u ever roleplay in the bedroom (i don't mean online lol)?: i have.
LOTS OF HAVE U EVERS…LOL
75. have u ever used food 4 sexual purposes? yeh
76. have u ever had a 3some or any sort of group sex? no... .
77. have u ever had sex with more than 1 person during a 24-hour period but not at the same time? yes
78. have u ever had sex with other ppl in the room? yes
79. have u ever been caught masturbating? not that i know of
80. have u ever caught anyone else masturbating? yeh
81. have u ever been caught having sex? almost!!
82. have u ever caught anyone else having sex? yes. my parents, when i was little. eep. but i didn't have my glasses on. ha ha ha ha ha.......... ew.
83. have u ever watched anyone masturbate (whether they knew or not)? yeh
84. have u ever let anyone watch u masturbate? yeh
85. have u ever watched anyone have sex (whether they knew or not)? no
86. has anyone ever watched u having sex? yes. there was some weird shit when i was thirteen... those boys were weird. but hey, i'm shameless...
87. have u ever watched urself? no
88. have u ever kissed anyone of the same sex? yeh.
89. have u ever had a sexual experience with someone of the same sex? yes
90. have u ever had sex with 2 ppl in the same family? uh... yeh. brothers. and their cousin. ha ha ha.... oh my.
91. have u ever had sex with someone related 2 u? no
92. have u ever had sex with an animal? no
93. have u ever had pains as a result of sexual acts? yeh. many a time. heh.
94. have u ever fallen asleep during sex? no, but i've been damned bored...
95. have u ever answered the phone while u were having sex and kept going? ha ha ha... yes
96. have u ever broken anything having sex? hmmn......
AND FINALLY
97. describe ur worst sexual experience: (*glares for five minutes*) ...i had to stab him in the stomach. the end.
98. describe ur best sexual experience: (*shakes head*) i have to save that.
99. describe ur biggest fantasy: nah. saving that, too.
100. and finally, what's the kinkiest thing u've ever done? ...?
SEX
Are you male or female?: female.
What is your sexual preference?: mostly dyke.
How many partners have you had?: more than i ever remember off the top of my head. 10-12... i feel dirty. sigh.
What turns you on?: being touched. i'm highly sensetive.
What turns you off?: penises. excessive body hair. weird things.
What are the most interesting places you've had sex?: library bathrooms, Fort Nashboro/Riverfront Park, various public places...
What is your favorite position?: (*shrug*)
What is something you've sexually experimented with and found that you didn't like it?: hmmn...
What is something sexual you've never done, but want to?: (*shrug*)
How old were you when you had your first orgasm?: i think eleven.
How often do you masturbate?: once every two weeks, maybe?
Do you own any sex toys?: alas, no. someone buy for me!
What is your favorite kind of porn?: i'm not sure. haven't seen enough yet.
Who is your favorite porn star?: uh. dunno.
Name three celebrities you want to have sex with (if you're bisexual you can use three of each): ha ha ha... bisexuals get more answers? no fair. i don't feelike answering this.
Have you ever had sex with two or more people in a 24-hour period, excluding three-or-moresomes?: yes
Have you ever had a threesome or an orgy (four or more people)?: not yet.
Name five songs that you think are great sex music: ummmn...
Do you regret the circumstances during which you lost your virginity?: YES. i've lied to myself/others abt. the exact circumstances for years. but it was bad.
Do you regret any other sexual experiences?: not really.
HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIMENTED WITH...
S&M?: not a lot. some minor violent stuff, yay
Roleplaying?: a bit
Golden or brown showers?:ewww. no.
Mutual masturbation?: i always thought it seemed boring.
Homosexuality?: uh, yeh.
Using food during sex?: yeh. not fun.
Exhibitionism?: hell yes!
Voyeurism?: yeh
1.Have you ever been in love?: yes.
2.How do you know it's love?: ha ha ha... i analyse it incessantly.
3.What makes you fall in love?: fate.
4.What if your girlfriend/boyfriend is a bad kisser?: i usually don't mind too much. but i tried to teach her.
5.What turns you on (at 1st sight)?: hmmn...
6.Are you the jealous type?: if i have reason to be. if i don't totally trust her. i can be jealous or not. it depends.
7.Body or brains?: brains. but i won't go near someone unless i think she's attractive.
8.Do looks matter?: to a certain extent. i have to think she's attractive, and my perception of that is not the standard perception. so. but they don't matter a lot to me, no. not asmuch as personality.
9.What turns you off?: things.
10.The perfect date?: involves good conversation.
11.What do you have that will make a person fall for u?: i wish i knew. my personality, i suppose.
12.Do you still believe in courtship?: a bit.
13.Flowers or chocolates?: i have no preference.
14.Kiss on the first date?: i prefer not to.
15.Sex on the first date?: no.
16.What would you do if you find out that your girlfriend/ boyfriend is cheating on you?: totally depends on the situation. it'd fuck me up a lot.
17.Have you ever cheated on someone?: yes.
18.Fling or long term relationship?: that's apples and oranges, in my mind. i don't know what i want or what i need right now. for a while. overall, i prefer longterm. i can't do flings if i'm emotionally involved. and i am. always.
19.What do you think of holding hands in public?: cute
20.What do you think of kissing in public?: i'm incredibly publicly affectionate. if she's comfortable w/ it, then hell yes.
21.What if your girlfriend/boyfriend is a smoker?: i'm allergic. please don't kill me.
22.Ever fell in love with a friend of the same sex?: yes. quite literally.
23. What would a girl/guy have to do to win your heart?: intelligence. sense of humour. things that make me smile. and so on.