the move
I have been reading this book called Who Moved My Cheese? and it talks about dealing with change in your work and in your life. I have come to understand that I have moved on, I only needed to understand that the cheese is no longer here and I need to find out where it has gone too. It talkes about how two mice and two people living in a maze and evertime they go out they look for cheese, and this cheese is the meat of their life. Then one day the mice find a huge ammount of cheese and think to them selves that this will last them for a long time. at the same time later in the day the two people find the same pile and as the days go on the two people boast about it and make the cheese the center of attention. Now sooner or later the cheese is going to not be there any more cause it gets moldy and is no good anymore or the supply is no longer there. So the two mice move on look for a new stock running throught the maze and they are scared about it not knowing where they will find their cheese. At the same time the two people go back to the spot where they had their cheese. the fact of the story is that the people got so caught up in the cheese they had that they did not bother to look at the whole picture. The cheese is not always going to be there it will go bad and the supply will not be there anymore. people are stubborn and unless you know how to change then you will only be scared to make change happen. I have moved on and yes I am scared of what life holds in store for me but I do know that there will always be cheese to satisfy my needs and I just have to understand that the cheese I had is no longer there, or has gone bad. Read "Who Moved My Cheese" if you are having trouble with change. and dont know why the other person has moved on. I do know that answer now.