Sam and I are getting divorced.
We've spent November talking more than we have in years and after a lot of painful discussion (together and with counselors) have reached the conclusion that our differences are irreconcilable.
It is all still pretty raw and I don't want to talk about it yet. I am focusing on the practical side right now - I am moving this weekend. The messy, emotional side mostly gets saved up for my therapist.
I wish Sam well. We are trying to make the divorce process as amicable as possible.