Feb 25, 2008 08:57
I can finally say, after almost six and a half years of marriage, I've never been happier. Will and I are in love, on cloud nine, in a honeymoon phase of our marriage and it's fantastic!
i know my family, especially, will be happy to hear this because I'm sure that they've thought so many times that we wouldn't last. For so long it seemed like, to many people, that we didn't like each other and we were not happy, but that really hasn't been the truth. We just have this special relationship where he lets me be who I am and when I have issues to work out, he waits and has faith. He's always been right there by my side waiting for the real Lucy to arrive. :) He's my guy and I'm so glad we've worked through all of our issues together. It's what makes marriage even better. When I started to get happy within myself, it changed my whole world. I hope that everyone recognizes this.
How did we do it? It has been a culmination of many things, but it's mostly been ME changing. Once I changed and allowed myself to let my guard down and LOVE him for who he is and stop judging him and disrespecting him, it has allowed him to relax and be happy and treat me exactly how I want to be treated. He's a phenomenal husband and I'm super duper lucky to have him. I couldn't ask for anyone better. Seriously, all men should take notes from this man!
Gosh, I can remember just a year ago how miserable I was and how badly I treated him. It was because I wasn't happy with myself. I am so thankful that he stuck it out with me.
I LOVE YOU WILLIAM H WHITE!!!!
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