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[luco_millian]

I'm really torn about Otakon

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[karitwilight]

If you plan to do this as a job the WORST thing you can do is get into situations where you would rather be working somewhere else. It will pile up mentally trust me. Plus you said it yourself this would give you great motivation. Not to mention you sound like you really, really, really want to go... But yeah like I said, if this is for a current/future job growth then wanting to help you cultivate working under that pressure and planning and drive... well to me NOT helping that happen sounds kinda selfish. :/ You're obviously going through personal growth. It sounds to me like you know WHERE to grow, you just need to branch out for a second to do so.

[brian_kun]

And think of the coke slurpee's girl. Would be nice to see you but if you don't make it you'll me in are minds ever time we pas a 7-11.

[yukinoomoni]

Yes, you do. Which is why you should go.

[ugetsu]

Hey, We are going to have some room, I believe. It's a little early to tell though. I wouldn't mind helping out! We get up there thursday, usually :)

[white_aster]

If there are two things that regularly happen on the same weekend, going one year to one and then one year to the other sounds perfectly reasonable. It's not being selfish or childish...it's balancing what you want vs. what your family wants, which is a very adult thing. It's not reasonable for anyone to expect you to do something that your heart's not in, just because they want you to. You've got the right to make these decisions for yourself, and alternating years or spending half the weekend in one place and half the other sounds like a good compromise.

After all, this is just one year out of many years of cons to come. No one's going to love you less if you don't go this one year.

[erinlin]

Yeah, alternating the cons sounds like a good compromise.