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Love Language Test
Pick 1 of the 2 choices that means more to you, total up your scores, and then post your results...
1. I like to receive notes of affirmation A
I like to be hugged E
2. I like to spend one-to-one time with a person who is special to me B
I feel loved when someone gives practical help to me D
3. I like it when people give me gifts C
I like leisurely visits with friends and loved ones B
4. I feel loved when people do things to help me D
I feel loved when people touch me E
5. I feel loved when someone I love or admire puts his/her arm around me E
I feel loved when I receive a gift from someone I love or admire C
6. I like to go places with friends and loved ones B
I like to high-five or hold hands with people who are special to me E
7. Visible symbols of love (gifts) are very important to me C
I feel loved when people affirm me A
8. I like to sit close to people whom I enjoy being around E
I like for people to tell me I am attractive A
9. I like to spend time with friends and loved ones B
I like to receive little gifts from friends and loved ones C
10. Words of acceptance are important to me A
I know someone loves me when he/she helps me D
11.I like being together and doing things with friends and loved ones B
I like it when kind words are spoken to me A
12. What someone does affects me more than what he/she says D
Hugs make me feel connected, valued and loved E
13. I value praise and try to avoid criticism A
Several small gifts mean more to me than one large gift C
14.I feel close to someone when we are talking or doing something together B
I feel closer to friends and loved ones when they touch me often E
15. I like for people to compliment my achievements A
I know people love me when they do things for me that they don’t enjoy doing D
16. I like to be touched as friends and loved ones walk by E
I like it when people listen to me and show genuine interest in what I am saying B
17.I feel loved when friends or loved ones help me with projects or jobs D
I really enjoy receiving gifts from friends and loved ones C
18. I like for people to compliment my appearance A
I feel loved when people take time to understand my feelings B
19. I feel secure when someone important to me touches me E
Acts of service make me feel loved D
20. I appreciate the many things that special people in my life do for me D
I like receiving gifts that people close to me make for me C
21.I really enjoy the feeling I get when someone gives me undivided attention B
I really enjoy the feeling I get when someone does some act of service for me D
22. I feel loved when a person celebrates my birthday with a gift C
I feel loved when a person celebrates my birthday with meaningful words A
23. I know a person is thinking of me when he/she gives me a gift C
I feel loved when a person helps with my chores or daily tasks D
24.I appreciate it when someone listens patiently and doesn’t interrupt me B
I appreciate it when someone remembers special days with a gift C
25.I like knowing loved ones are concerned enough to help me with daily tasks D
I enjoy extended trips with someone who is special to me B
26. I enjoy kissing or being kissed by people with whom I am close E
Receiving a gift given for no special reason excites me C
27. I like to be told that I am appreciated A
I like for a person to look at me when we are talking B
28. Gifts from a friend or loved one are always special to me C
I feel good when a friend or loved one touches me E
29. I feel loved when a person enthusiastically does some task I have requested D
I feel loved when I am told how much I am appreciated A
30. I need to be touched every day E
I need to receive words of affirmation every day A
TOTALS: _______A ________B ________C ________D ________E
A - words of affirmation B - quality time C - receiving gifts D - acts of service
E - physical touch