My mother.....Ugh.
Wow. On Tuesday my mom called me and left a message on my cell phone saying she wanted to see me this Friday. Knowing I already had plans, I called her back and declined. She said she'd see me another day then and that was that. Or so I thought. So, it's Firday and my plans were cancelled, which I am fine with. Not 30 minutes ago I was sitting here at the computer, the door bell rings. No one but the post man and the heathen children next door come to my door. So, I thought nothing much of it, just the kids next door. So, I get to the door, look out the peep hold, I see no one. I thought it was the post man, because he usually puts the package on the ground, rings the door bell, and then walks off. So, I didn't see anyone, so I opened the door and there she was standing out of the peep hole veiw. My mother. I have not seen her in over a month and that is record for me. She looked the same, but she smelt weird. She gave me two presents and we talked in front of the door way. She wanted to come in, but she is not allowed in what still is mine and my dads house as of now. We fought about the computer. She says the computer is under her name...When my grandmother gave her the money to buy this computer. So, it may be under her name (Which my dad says it is not. I dunno, I'm confused), but technically it does not belong to my mother. So, I proceeded to tell my mother that my grandmother gave the computer to me, and that the computer is mine and not hers. She gave me a "Cassie stop your bull shit lying" look that I always get when I explain something to her. Anyway, we fought about more. She is supposed to be coming abck, because my dad wants to give her the insurance card for the truck she took. Which, by the way, belongs to my dad.
Just her dropping by mine and my dads house was against terms put in divorce papers. It was a shock. She's dirt poor, but I feel no sympathy for her. She choose what she wanted, and because the relationship with her and my dad was not the exact way she wanted it to be, she left. My dad is still baffled as to why she left. His guess is that she thought a relationship with "the Dan guy" would be so much more grande than the one she had with my dad. But she made her choice and now she is paying for it. I laugh at her stupidity, because the life she had here was not bad at all. Her lying for two years created tension between anyone that entered this house. No one knew it but her, but there was tension and her lying created it. With the tension came more and more lies, which she was not happy living with.
I feel no sympathy for her, I don't miss her all that much either. I thought Thanks Giving was going to be a waste without her, because that was the first Thanks Giving I had without her, but it wasn't a waste at all. I had fun and I got over the fact she wasn't there. I tackled Thanks Giving and now Christmas is going to be a breeze.
I am playing phone tag with her and my dad at the moment. Looks as if she will not be coming back to get the insurence card. Oh well.
Anyway. Yeah. So. That was that. It is still not over. I have to go to a mediator in a month or so still. Not looking forward to that. This is all so confusing and frustrating, not only for me, but everyone envolved. She's making things harder than they have to be. Ugh.
Just her dropping by mine and my dads house was against terms put in divorce papers. It was a shock. She's dirt poor, but I feel no sympathy for her. She choose what she wanted, and because the relationship with her and my dad was not the exact way she wanted it to be, she left. My dad is still baffled as to why she left. His guess is that she thought a relationship with "the Dan guy" would be so much more grande than the one she had with my dad. But she made her choice and now she is paying for it. I laugh at her stupidity, because the life she had here was not bad at all. Her lying for two years created tension between anyone that entered this house. No one knew it but her, but there was tension and her lying created it. With the tension came more and more lies, which she was not happy living with.
I feel no sympathy for her, I don't miss her all that much either. I thought Thanks Giving was going to be a waste without her, because that was the first Thanks Giving I had without her, but it wasn't a waste at all. I had fun and I got over the fact she wasn't there. I tackled Thanks Giving and now Christmas is going to be a breeze.
I am playing phone tag with her and my dad at the moment. Looks as if she will not be coming back to get the insurence card. Oh well.
Anyway. Yeah. So. That was that. It is still not over. I have to go to a mediator in a month or so still. Not looking forward to that. This is all so confusing and frustrating, not only for me, but everyone envolved. She's making things harder than they have to be. Ugh.