Hey, how's it going? I'm not too bad, in spite of just eating a whole bag of chips. Lays chips are disgusting to begin with and I ate way too many of them. Ughhh I feel like I'm going to puke
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Ben, man, you don't have a habit of ruining things! Stop being so hard on your poor self dammit! :) And besides, my day was very shitty before you even stepped into it :)
But no, I do understand what you mean... I just find it very hard to go between you two I guess. I do understand where you're coming from... the feeling of just losing somebody, being so helpless, not being able to do anything, thinking that some of your best times have come to an end... your memories even starting to get bitter... I really do know what you mean, Ben. But I guess the thing is, honestly, that feeling does go away. If you just give yourself time to heal and get over that person, it will. The thing is, you have to get away... you have to stop liking them, you have to stop seeing them, you have to have time to realize that you can make it without them. You have to see that not caring for them is the best thing you can do for yourself... and once you try, really try to let it go, it will. It takes a while, but it honestly does happen... Eventually it gets to the point where you have regrets but not anger... you remember the good times without bitterness... you can see that person without breaking down or wanting them all over again... you accept what's happened and realize that things are going to change in your life. But change isn't always bad, Ben. You never know what crazy things the future has for you... and when you get on with that future, that is when you realize that you don't need that person to be somebody... and then, I think, you can be friends again. The best of friends, even closer friends because of what you've been through and what you understand about each other.
But no, I do understand what you mean... I just find it very hard to go between you two I guess. I do understand where you're coming from... the feeling of just losing somebody, being so helpless, not being able to do anything, thinking that some of your best times have come to an end... your memories even starting to get bitter... I really do know what you mean, Ben. But I guess the thing is, honestly, that feeling does go away. If you just give yourself time to heal and get over that person, it will. The thing is, you have to get away... you have to stop liking them, you have to stop seeing them, you have to have time to realize that you can make it without them. You have to see that not caring for them is the best thing you can do for yourself... and once you try, really try to let it go, it will. It takes a while, but it honestly does happen... Eventually it gets to the point where you have regrets but not anger... you remember the good times without bitterness... you can see that person without breaking down or wanting them all over again... you accept what's happened and realize that things are going to change in your life. But change isn't always bad, Ben. You never know what crazy things the future has for you... and when you get on with that future, that is when you realize that you don't need that person to be somebody... and then, I think, you can be friends again. The best of friends, even closer friends because of what you've been through and what you understand about each other.
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