God Dammit Jeffrey!
So I had to take Jeff to the Emergency room yesterday because he was feeling weak and lethargic and had trouble breathing. Well, we get there and the nurse says there is a crackling noise in his lungs, and htey need to be x rayed becuse lung disease and lung cancers start out that way. Jeff gets all scared, and we wait for four fucking hours for his x ray results. The whole time, we are talking about how he has to quit smoking, beause this is just too scary. Then, fucking, jeff finds out he doesn't have lung cancer or lung disease and tells me " all i can think about is that cigarette on the couch at home waiting for me".
WHAT THE FUCK MAN!
Would anybody else be pissed off at this? Its like, well, we found out my lungs are ok, so i can keep smoking. As opposed to if they weren't ok, and then you would be screwed because of your own actions. SO i got pissed and threw his last cigarette in the toilet. I have been told every damn day for the last year that he is going quit, and he never did. I have been lied to for too long. PLUS... the fact that there was a chance that his smoking had cause serious damage indicates that its time to quit.
I am not being nice anymore. Is it wrong of me to force him to quit smoking? I think its fair, seeing as how he has been promising it to me for the last year and three months.
What do you guys think?
Oh! and then, this morning he was being totally mean to me. He said that I'm not being sympathetic and supporting him during his quitting period. He said that I don't understand how hard it is. He was being a dick, snapping at me and shit.
Oh no, I totally understand how hard it is, but you have had a year and a half to prepare for it, so get the fuck over it and stick to doing what you say you are going to do.
WHAT THE FUCK MAN!
Would anybody else be pissed off at this? Its like, well, we found out my lungs are ok, so i can keep smoking. As opposed to if they weren't ok, and then you would be screwed because of your own actions. SO i got pissed and threw his last cigarette in the toilet. I have been told every damn day for the last year that he is going quit, and he never did. I have been lied to for too long. PLUS... the fact that there was a chance that his smoking had cause serious damage indicates that its time to quit.
I am not being nice anymore. Is it wrong of me to force him to quit smoking? I think its fair, seeing as how he has been promising it to me for the last year and three months.
What do you guys think?
Oh! and then, this morning he was being totally mean to me. He said that I'm not being sympathetic and supporting him during his quitting period. He said that I don't understand how hard it is. He was being a dick, snapping at me and shit.
Oh no, I totally understand how hard it is, but you have had a year and a half to prepare for it, so get the fuck over it and stick to doing what you say you are going to do.